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  I think he actually feels justified in what he's doing, maybe he contacted the Dr. Phil show because he wanted reassurance that what he is doing is "normal" and "okay" ... maybe he just wanted an audience, in some sick twisted way wanted too show the world look I "own"   my wife Jennifer she's  my possession....... He is one very sick individual, Jennifer needs too take her kids and get as far away from his as possible.....

It seems too me it's very scary just how easy it is for one human being too control another.......and the fact that it probably goes on allot more then we all think, is that inself even scarier!

Abusers always think they are justified. I spent more than ten years with an abusive controlling man. I am not exaggerating when I tell you he never said the words "I'm sorry." All I ever heard is “I didn’t do anything wrong.” They are masters at making you feel responsible for their behavior. I always heard, “if you hadn’t done x, I wouldn’t have had to do y.”  They are so twisted in their minds they consider themselves the victim.