Quote From: mary_pop_pinsMy husband also wanted me to have sex with friends of his. I don't think he even cared 'who' as long as he could watch. I never, however, did because it seems so demeaning. I have demeaned myself in other ways but one would never guess it by looking at me. Regardless, this is wrong, fundamentally, morally wrong. Why? Because unless you asked for the threesome, a walk in on the shower for money...it is wrong. Now, I am not sure if this in ongoing but alot of stuff can happen in 21 years of marriage and I don't think one weeks worth of mistakes defines your relationship. Thus, two days out of those years he asked for a threesome. They were not 'deal breakers' because you are still with him. Maybe someday you will decide that this is YOUR life and only YOU own it. If YOU decide to spend the rest of your life unhappy....then you are giving it to him. But there are millions of men out there that would treat you right.
They are deal breakers and your post and the other poster don't seem to realize it, at all.
They are not mistakes.
They are wrong, morally and ethically wrong.
It's sexual abuse.
It's never acceptable.
