Replies to '04/27 Obsessive Love: The Drama Continues'

This guy isn't crazy ...  he's a BATTERER and ABUSER.   He sure as hell acts like a nut case, using the tactics and systematic Domestic Violence and Abuse tactics, manipulations and control.

Batterers and Abusers know exactly what they're doing, they do it intentionally, its a choice and they do it anyway.

Their purpose is to have power over their partner, using  abuse and control.  They do this to take the partner down.    To destroy ... if need be, so  the partner can not get away from them.

It only takes ONE, ONE PERSON WHO USES ABUSE AND CONTROL, brainwashing, crazy-making, systematic tactics to violate, abuse and control....it only takes one to destroy an entire family.

It's about time Dr. Phil finally shows the world what these abusers are doing to the partners they render feeling "crazy" and in a state of helplessness.   

My heart goes out to this precious  woman and her children.

I'm thanking God that Dr. Phil is involved .... now she can get free, get away .... with Dr. Phil's help.

Otherwise, this batterer / abuser  might have gone for the ultimate control.

I agree, I watched the shows and feel that she needs help as well. I feel in listening to what they have said he is totally wrong and OVER THE TOP. She however, is also wrong. She has done things in the marriage that are deceitful.

I have been in a abusive relationship, a long time ago. Being on this side, I have to take some of the responsibility. I stayed. I allowed him to take over and control me. I could have gotten help. I could have left. I could have done a lot of things. But I did not do it!

Years later and wiser, I know I have no obligation to anyone, but myself and my children. 

I am very happy and healthy, as are my children.