Replies to 'Breaking Up'

Hon, you need to go back to your own home, whether it be in Idaho or Tennessee or across town.  You are shacking up with a man who is not happy because he said "something is missing and he can't tell you what"?  Don't be silly, He knows EXACTLY what is missing, he just doesnt' know how to tell you.  He may be missing hanging out with his buddies without having to worry about calling home or he may be missing the dating/flirting game.  Now that you live with him, those perks have gone by the wayside for him.  Breaking up sucks but some people aren't good at closure and they will do or say things in hopes the other person will break up which takes them off the hook and that's that.  What they don't seem to realize is, women need closure because women have a tendancy to blame themselves.  Go home hon...and let him prove something to you.  And don't jever ust live with someone because once you have taken that step, he has no reason to ask you to marry him.  He has everything he wants without the commentment of marriage.  Like the old saying goes, "why buy the cow when you get the milk for free".   It's the truth, take it from a 50 year old woman who made the mistake more than I care to admit.  If he wants you, then make him prove it.  Make him work for it.  The hard they have to work for it, the more they enjoy it.  Men like the chase....not so much the capture.   And when I say make them work for it.....I meant everything!!!  espcially in the bedroom.