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October 1, 2005, 7:44 am PDT

Stess-reduction

Quote From: bernesha03

It doesn't take much for me to become stressed. I am 20 years old, psychology major, Spanish minor, and it is my junior year. I have several problems that I need to deal with, but don't. I often feel like I am talking to myself, because my thoughts seem really loud and I can't relax. Sometimes I become so interested in my thoughts that I begin to have a mental conversation. I also get really anxious sometimes, but I don't know why? I know I can't stop thinking, but does anyone have suggestions on how I can clear my mind or get my thoughts to quiet down?

  

 

  

 The best method I know of to reduce stress is to take some time to yourself. You can buy a stress reduction tape, there are many out there, and sit comfortably or lie back and listen to it. It's something you have to practice. Just like you unconsciensely "practiced" anxiety by telling yourself things like "there's no time! I'm not good enough!" or whatever, now you have to stop and do something different. Over a surprisingly small amount of time, you will have mastered the art of calming yourself in any situation by taking a few deep breaths and giving yourself a trigger mantra or act.
It is a choice and you have to practice it though. Decide that you DO have the time and that you are important enough to learn this skill.

 
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October 21, 2005, 9:58 am PDT

I can relate to the loud thoughts

Quote From: bernesha03

It doesn't take much for me to become stressed. I am 20 years old, psychology major, Spanish minor, and it is my junior year. I have several problems that I need to deal with, but don't. I often feel like I am talking to myself, because my thoughts seem really loud and I can't relax. Sometimes I become so interested in my thoughts that I begin to have a mental conversation. I also get really anxious sometimes, but I don't know why? I know I can't stop thinking, but does anyone have suggestions on how I can clear my mind or get my thoughts to quiet down?

  

 

  

I know how that feels.  It is unnerving in and of itself when your brain just won't shut up.  Have you tried writing in a journal?  You could even use the diaries feature here.   Sometimes it helps me to write a list of the things on my mind that I need to do, so I can reassure myself that I can continue my worrying tomorrow! LOL  Try a physical activity like folding laundry, because work that requires repetitive hand motions often quiets the brain.  Oh yeah, you are a psych major, you probably know that.  Don't be afraid to talk to a counselor or your pastor about your anxieties, or even speak to your doctor.  He might give you some medicine to help you relax.  Just some thoughts!   

Good Luck and Smile! 

~Sunshine~ 

 


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