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April 26, 2007, 7:58 pm PDT

Wow! You make such good and interesting points!

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They have one major reason going for them:  Florida Adoptions are closed to the public.  That's the law and the Needham's and their attorneys have used it since the very second Allison signed the adoption papers.  Florida law is that a child given up for adoption under six months old, it takes place immediately.  Then they use this Adoptions closed to the public as their defense not to go public. 

 

It's not a very good defense considering the names of the children, all the adults, the attorneys, and the judge has already been put out to the public but it works because, again, it's the law.

 

But, IMHO, they would not have good answers for the questions that would be asked.  I'm not talking about  "the law" questions because they did operate within the law, but the moral questions that would be asked of them. 

 

Here are some questions that would be asked:  Why didn't you give the kids back when she requested them?  Couldn't you find other kids to adopt?  Why "these kids"?

 

Basically, they would be put on "The Morality Trial" vice the "The Legal Trial".  I like to make a point about the difference:

 

Morality dictates how the laws are made, not the other way around.  Most of us know that murder and stealing are wrong not because the law says it is but because our morals made those things wrong so we made a law against it.

 

Here examples of morality changing laws that were made.  Women right to vote and Abolishing Slavery.

 

Heck, our country was founded on morality!!  The people of the colonies saw it as immoral the way England treated them, so they made a constitution to change the laws.  They believed in it so much that they gave their lives for it.

 

That is what so hard about this case.  Even though you are operating within the law, does it make it right?

 

If I was the Needhams, would I go public and be submitted to these questions?  No Way!!!!!!

I think you are right on about the Morality thing...It is funny how we use laws to justify our actions...even when they are morally wrong....I don't know how people can live with themselves...Maybe they delude themselves with justifications that only make sense to them?  I know if I were the Needham's I would hope and pray that no one shows the children what happened to them...The accurate reasons why they are not with their Mother and why they are with them instead..."The truth" will be really hard to keep from them, since so much of this case has been made public.  Usually kids have to wait until they are 18 to begin searching for information on their parents and history but in this case, everyone who surrounds them will most likely already know their story.  I wonder if they know anything already...or if they have been kept in the beauty of childhood innocence.  I just don't know what the Needham's would say to those beautiful children.  I wish I could be a fly on the wall.  Instead, I will just be there, in court, or through the internet to hear what the Judge says is Justice.  May we all pray for Justice (if you believe in prayer).  Otherwise, may we all hope for Justice. 
 


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