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April 26, 2007, 4:15 pm PDT
04/27 Obsessive Love: The Drama Continues
Quote From: rgoshien If you cheat on your husband what do you expect him to do? Just let it go and not say anything? I will say that he has gone a little to far, but he has good reason. If you don't want to be with him just go to a shelter or a relatives home. I understand you have kids, but the kids don't need to see it either. Do you want your sons growing up like him? I just wanted to get that off my chest. did you ever think that she seriously is not happy and is thriving to be with someone who cares?? i know for a fact that when you are in a bad relationship you will look elsewhere for love , understanding, and someone who cares. he has gone way over the edge with this poor woman and she is looking for something that is definately not in this relationship. i have been in a poor relationship for a few years. always depending on friends to have open ears and give me support. as for why does she stay with him?? when you have financial ties it unfortunately can make a woman feel very insecure as to what will she do to support herself.. it is alot to think abot. my husband is not abusive but totally financial controlling which has ed me to find other part time jobs for my own spending money. the problem is the minute i do that, he thinks that is partially hi money also. so you feel stuck,, trapped.. i fear for her.. he is over the edge.. she needs someone to care from the heart without this fear she has hanging over her.
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