Quote From: bertie11i have also been left alone .after my husband decided he wanted someone else after 27 yrs of marriage.the funny thing about it is no one seen it coming not even me. we were childhood sweethearts i married him at 15.and have loved him my whole life. he always said we were soul mates. i am devestated. we have 2 kids 4 and 13.which we had a very hard time having.he said he is just tired of responsibilties.i just dont know what to think ,we have never had problems before we were best friends and did everything together,and now hes gone. i feel like he just died. he is not the same person i know and love. yes he is turning 50 this year. maybe he is trying to prove he can get someone else.the one he left me for is 9 yrs older than me and 3 yrs older than him. i thought he would have went with someone younger.i still get up everyday and fix my hair and do my make up and tkake of my blessings[kids god does give me strengh. i dont know what the future will hold i guess i have to wait and see it is sooo very hard,
I have been married for 19 years in June. We have two really great kids my daughter 18 & my son 17. I will admit our marrage wasn't the best as of late ,but I didn't think it was bad enough to warrent leaving for someone else . Anyway my wife Worked about 1 hour away from the home & didn't make it home several nights when the weather kept her form getting home . She would stay at the local hotel to make it to work the next day . Little did I know she was seeing another man there . I only found out about it around an hour after finding out my grandma died . she has moved into an apartment closer to her job with the other man . Left me & the kids behind for her "right to be happy." I am a praying man & I believe that if god has a plan for us to be back together He will make things right for us. till then I pray , I read the bible, I go to church, And I live . It is all I can do till the time is right for me with gods help to either claim her back or claim another . still I wear my wedding ring on my hand in Faith of things to come . It's not easy but it's the way I need to go . Thankyou for reading my response.
