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April 28, 2007, 2:32 am PDT
obsesive love
Quote From: smurfyoneTelling someone to leave the situation they are in is always easier said than done, especially when you are not in their shoes 24/7 with the mentally/emotionally ill spouse. For her or any woman to remain in said situation for as long as they do is for many reasons, some financial some directly related to the kids. She doesn't have to justify why to anyone why other than herself, her kids, and God. I am not by any stretch of the imagination saying that her husband's behaviors/rationale as to why he does what he does is perfectly fine. As Dr. Phil said, there are kids involved, and to end it now would make it so explosive for her and the kids, that she may feel as though she's safer staying with him than leaving. hello, i figure the last thing this lady needs is a community asking why?why she did not leave. i feel so sad for her. you can not imagine what this does to yous soul. just imagine, the person who is [suppose] to love and protect you is your jailor. over time you become as sick as them.you do not have the mental or physical strength TO LEAVE.you think who cares? by this time the abuser has cut you off from all the people that cared. even your [FRIENDS] say, if she is that stupid she deserves what she gets.!!!just remember it could be [YOU]. NEVER say NEVER. from somebody who has been there. this lady is lucky she has[DR. PHIL.
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