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April 28, 2007, 1:09 pm PDT
04/27 Obsessive Love: The Drama Continues
Quote From: androolthis was a detail that didnt sit well with me. i was under the impression that he didnt lock her in there but just held the door closed while he told the kids to go upstairs then he let her out. but before that she kicked a hole in the door. now i dont think we got an exact number but when he said it was just to get the kids upstairs i dont remember her disputing that. if someone in my house is holding a door closed the appropriate reaction is NOT to kick a hole in the door. now if he had actually locked her down there and left then thats another story. but this isnt the impression i got at all. sorry i just felt like locking her in the basement was a gross misrepresentation of what actually happened. Whether it was "locking" literally or figuratively is irrelevant. I had a boyfriend who was angry at me who would't "let me" leave our apartment when i wanted to leave during an argument. The loss of control over one's physical choice to go or not to go, leave the basement or not, is horrible for a woman. Note this rarely happens with men, because men are physically stronger than women. My feelings for that boyfriend changed in an instant...the deep trust was gone...
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