Replies to '07/06 “Call it Off!”'

This is the wrong place to talk about it, but if you will read the transcript, he admitted that he started this the minute they gotten married! She was a newlywed, she was PREGNANT,  & he has no trust for her? He was recording her phone calls RIGHT AFTER they got married! HIS CRAZY BEHAVIOR STARTED FROM THE BEGINNING! NOT AFTER SHE HAD AN AFFAIR! She had been living with his abuse for 2 years before she had an affair. Another BIG RED FLAG... she had NO ONE at the wedding! What 19 year old girl doesn't want her family & her friends at her wedding? He engineered it so that she had NO family or friends at her wedding! SHE DID NOT TRIGGER HIS OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR!

Simply put, Jeffrey knew from the beginning that no woman around his age would put up with his crap (back at 30), otherwise, he wouldn't be going after a nice, naive, young woman at 19. I have seen men like him. They control, manipulate, & dominate young women like her. A REAL man NEVER abuses a woman, whatever it's emotionally, or physically, & unfortunately, that's what's driven her to find another man to rescue her. All of the Jeffrey defenders need to wake up. You're basically defending a man for his actions. That is NO excuse for him to act like that. NONE. You either work out on the marriage, or get a divorce & move on, not become a controlling, dominating pig.

At 30, some people have 15 year old children! There is something SERIOUSLY wrong with a supposedly mature, responsible ADULT even wanting a 19 year old child.

 

This woman is a predator...maybe not a sexual predator, but a predator. She WANTS this child for something more than love. He must fill some need of her's, but that's not HIS job to do.

 

I have friends who are 2 degades or more apart in years. However, the difference is that they were much older when they first met and they were both mature ADULTS at that time. They were  no longer children (yes, 19 year olds are still children). Age CAN matter...it depends upon the circumstances. The circumstances today are not good ones!