Replies to '05/11 Obsessive Love: On the Run'

You're so right!    I noticed that the husband wouldn't/couldn't look directly at Dr. Phil.    He really is a little mentally over the top.

 

Good luck Jennifer and kids!    Yes, you can do it....with or without him.  

Not that what he is doing is right. it's not, but she shouldn't of cheated on him in the first place. when she made the decision to sleep with someone else she should of left than. sounds like the foolishness didn't start til she had the affairs. she also needs to get real. it takes two to make it or break it.

I have NEVER heard a story like this. Now that this psycho is in jail, he needs to stay there. I"m sure there are no grounds for him to be kept, and he will continue to stalk Jennifer. My heart goes out to her.  Can't she change her phone numbers, etc?? STOP  POSTING STUFF ON "MY SPACE!!" He will find it somehow!!  Can she get into the witness protection program so he can't find her??

He has such a deep illness.  I'm sure he will follow through with his threats to hurt himself.......maybe that would be better for everyone....she would, at least, get to rest easy knowing that this behavior will stop.........

I hope updates are posted so we can see what happens. TAKE CARE, Jennifer! Know lots of us are pulling for you!

 

I agree with all of you that he is a sicko and she needs to get away.  The only thing that bothers me is Dr. Phil kept telling her it wasn't her fault, she did nothing wrong.  Did she not cheat on him twice when all this started?  Things seemed to be alright up until then, it seems he went off the deep end when she cheated.  Don't get me wrong I truly believe she should get away from him before he does something awful and he needs help badly, but she did do something wrong to help him get to this stage.

Man I am so glad she didn't let him manipulate her.  I had to run from a man in the same way.  Nothing would stop him until he got me.  It took me seven years to realize how much control he had over me.  I hope this show helps others get help and leave a horrible entrapment.

Yes she needs to get out of the marriage. I thought in show 1 they said she had an affair on him, not sticking up for him, but that could help push him over the edge. Not wise to take photos with another man while all this is going on, of course he would think she is hooking up with somebody. She is well rid of him though, he could not change.

 

I have been there years ago, went in hiding after I had gone to all my friends and family multiple times.  He would track me down and break in to their homes or distroy anything to get me to go back.  It isn't something YOU WILL UNDERSTAND unless it has happened to you.  Your life has been threaten and you certainly know that they will deliver.  He is just as nuts or more so.  He plays it well in front of the public and will seem like the "best guy ever" but anything will set them off.  Being stalked is not fun, 100 calls a day, at work until you nearly loose your job.  Wearing long sleeves in the summer to hide the bruising.

 

Your calling the police all hours of the day and night.  His watching your home and even laughs to the cop on the phone while he watches your house.

 

I don't believe she cheated, he would have never let her out of his sight long enough.  That is the least of the issues in that relationship.  At least there are more locations to offer help, over 30 years ago there wasn't any.  I knew of one person who's husband was a police captian and she walked the streets at night with 3 kids under 5 in the 50's because there was no one for her to go to.  I knew of one lady that laughed about a camera in an attic after seeing it in a show until she checked hers and found one. 

 

There are good men out there but they are few and far between.  Yes she needs help to have a better life for her and her kids and he needs more help than you will ever know!

 

 

Yes she should get out now with her kids.   He is completely nuts but she is not far behind.   God help the kids.

That won't be easy to do with what you see everyday in the news unless he does something to be arrested for he will have rights to see the children and if he is obsessed he will not stop even with a protection order in place .Or a divorce .She will have her hands full ,unless he really gets help.I would bet the number of spouses who kill under those same restrictions are pretty high.

 

Jenifer got pregnant and married after 2 months of dating ?

 

Could it be that at 19 years old she found a 30 year old SUGAR DADDY?

 

Jenifer...a mother of 3,  leaves her husband home babysitting while she goes out clubbing  

 

I would love to hook Jenifer up to a lie detector and ask about her affairs, that would be a great Dr Phil 1 hour show !

 

I read alot of post that say her affairs have nothing to do with it, but I think her affairs drove her husband into his bizarre controlling behavior.

 

I am shocked at dr. phil.... he usually see's both sides of the story, but for some reason he has blinders on and only see's her side.

DR: PHIL: JENIFER'S ACTIONS CAUSED THIS PROBLEM !!!