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May 4, 2007, 5:17 pm PDT

05/10 Obsessive Love: Secrets Revealed

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Before everyone starts blaming Jennifer,  read the transcripts of the last show; he admitted that he started this the minute they gotten married! She was a newlywed, she was PREGNANT, & he has no trust for her? He was recording her phone calls RIGHT AFTER they got married! HIS CRAZY BEHAVIOR STARTED FROM THE BEGINNING! NOT AFTER SHE HAD AN AFFAIR! She had been living with his abuse for 2 years before she had an affair. Another BIG RED FLAG... she had NO ONE at the wedding! What 19 year old girl doesn't want her family & her friends at her wedding? He engineered it so that she had NO family or friends at her wedding! SHE DID NOT TRIGGER HIS OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR!

Simply put, Jeffrey knew from the beginning that no woman around his age would put up with his crap (back at 30), otherwise, he wouldn't be going after a nice, naive, young woman at 19. I have seen men like him. They control, manipulate, & dominate young women like her. A REAL man NEVER abuses a woman, whatever it's emotionally, or physically, & unfortunately, that's what's driven her to find another man to rescue her. All of the Jeffrey defenders need to wake up. You're basically defending a man for his actions. That is NO excuse for him to act like that. NONE. You either work out on the marriage, or get a divorce & move on, not become a controlling, dominating pig. I have no sympathy for this man at all.
I have no sympathy for him neither. Remember when she said if she left him she would be scare that he would be park across the street looking at her? I believe he would do just that
 
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May 10, 2007, 7:16 am PDT

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Before everyone starts blaming Jennifer,  read the transcripts of the last show; he admitted that he started this the minute they gotten married! She was a newlywed, she was PREGNANT, & he has no trust for her? He was recording her phone calls RIGHT AFTER they got married! HIS CRAZY BEHAVIOR STARTED FROM THE BEGINNING! NOT AFTER SHE HAD AN AFFAIR! She had been living with his abuse for 2 years before she had an affair. Another BIG RED FLAG... she had NO ONE at the wedding! What 19 year old girl doesn't want her family & her friends at her wedding? He engineered it so that she had NO family or friends at her wedding! SHE DID NOT TRIGGER HIS OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR!

Simply put, Jeffrey knew from the beginning that no woman around his age would put up with his crap (back at 30), otherwise, he wouldn't be going after a nice, naive, young woman at 19. I have seen men like him. They control, manipulate, & dominate young women like her. A REAL man NEVER abuses a woman, whatever it's emotionally, or physically, & unfortunately, that's what's driven her to find another man to rescue her. All of the Jeffrey defenders need to wake up. You're basically defending a man for his actions. That is NO excuse for him to act like that. NONE. You either work out on the marriage, or get a divorce & move on, not become a controlling, dominating pig. I have no sympathy for this man at all.

I don't really get what you are stating here, because if you are paying attention not too many people are blaming Jennifer.

 

And about being "19", funny that you mention that, because I had a lot of criticism about this in the episode of the show when I wrote my post.  Jeffery had the NERVE to berate Jennifer for hanging out with her 20 something coworkers.  Yeah Right......mirror, mirror on the wall Hypocrite Jeffy Boy.  Sounds like Jeff is the pedophile.  He is definitely a Wacky Wonker.

 
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May 10, 2007, 9:00 am PDT

05/10 Obsessive Love: Secrets Revealed

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Before everyone starts blaming Jennifer,  read the transcripts of the last show; he admitted that he started this the minute they gotten married! She was a newlywed, she was PREGNANT, & he has no trust for her? He was recording her phone calls RIGHT AFTER they got married! HIS CRAZY BEHAVIOR STARTED FROM THE BEGINNING! NOT AFTER SHE HAD AN AFFAIR! She had been living with his abuse for 2 years before she had an affair. Another BIG RED FLAG... she had NO ONE at the wedding! What 19 year old girl doesn't want her family & her friends at her wedding? He engineered it so that she had NO family or friends at her wedding! SHE DID NOT TRIGGER HIS OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR!

Simply put, Jeffrey knew from the beginning that no woman around his age would put up with his crap (back at 30), otherwise, he wouldn't be going after a nice, naive, young woman at 19. I have seen men like him. They control, manipulate, & dominate young women like her. A REAL man NEVER abuses a woman, whatever it's emotionally, or physically, & unfortunately, that's what's driven her to find another man to rescue her. All of the Jeffrey defenders need to wake up. You're basically defending a man for his actions. That is NO excuse for him to act like that. NONE. You either work out on the marriage, or get a divorce & move on, not become a controlling, dominating pig. I have no sympathy for this man at all.
Yes, he did admit that he started this behavior as soon as they got married. And I'll just bet that if you looked into his past....there are other Ex-girlfriends that would share similar stories about him. Someone doesn't just become this way overnight....this evolves from childhood!!
 
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May 10, 2007, 1:05 pm PDT

05/10 Obsessive Love: Secrets Revealed

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Before everyone starts blaming Jennifer,  read the transcripts of the last show; he admitted that he started this the minute they gotten married! She was a newlywed, she was PREGNANT, & he has no trust for her? He was recording her phone calls RIGHT AFTER they got married! HIS CRAZY BEHAVIOR STARTED FROM THE BEGINNING! NOT AFTER SHE HAD AN AFFAIR! She had been living with his abuse for 2 years before she had an affair. Another BIG RED FLAG... she had NO ONE at the wedding! What 19 year old girl doesn't want her family & her friends at her wedding? He engineered it so that she had NO family or friends at her wedding! SHE DID NOT TRIGGER HIS OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR!

Simply put, Jeffrey knew from the beginning that no woman around his age would put up with his crap (back at 30), otherwise, he wouldn't be going after a nice, naive, young woman at 19. I have seen men like him. They control, manipulate, & dominate young women like her. A REAL man NEVER abuses a woman, whatever it's emotionally, or physically, & unfortunately, that's what's driven her to find another man to rescue her. All of the Jeffrey defenders need to wake up. You're basically defending a man for his actions. That is NO excuse for him to act like that. NONE. You either work out on the marriage, or get a divorce & move on, not become a controlling, dominating pig. I have no sympathy for this man at all.
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May 10, 2007, 2:51 pm PDT

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Before everyone starts blaming Jennifer,  read the transcripts of the last show; he admitted that he started this the minute they gotten married! She was a newlywed, she was PREGNANT, & he has no trust for her? He was recording her phone calls RIGHT AFTER they got married! HIS CRAZY BEHAVIOR STARTED FROM THE BEGINNING! NOT AFTER SHE HAD AN AFFAIR! She had been living with his abuse for 2 years before she had an affair. Another BIG RED FLAG... she had NO ONE at the wedding! What 19 year old girl doesn't want her family & her friends at her wedding? He engineered it so that she had NO family or friends at her wedding! SHE DID NOT TRIGGER HIS OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR!

Simply put, Jeffrey knew from the beginning that no woman around his age would put up with his crap (back at 30), otherwise, he wouldn't be going after a nice, naive, young woman at 19. I have seen men like him. They control, manipulate, & dominate young women like her. A REAL man NEVER abuses a woman, whatever it's emotionally, or physically, & unfortunately, that's what's driven her to find another man to rescue her. All of the Jeffrey defenders need to wake up. You're basically defending a man for his actions. That is NO excuse for him to act like that. NONE. You either work out on the marriage, or get a divorce & move on, not become a controlling, dominating pig. I have no sympathy for this man at all.
     Are people SERIOUSLY trying to blame this on his wife? That is just plain run of the mill stupid! I can't comprehend how someone could watch these 2 shows and say anything even close to that.
 
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May 10, 2007, 3:21 pm PDT

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Before everyone starts blaming Jennifer,  read the transcripts of the last show; he admitted that he started this the minute they gotten married! She was a newlywed, she was PREGNANT, & he has no trust for her? He was recording her phone calls RIGHT AFTER they got married! HIS CRAZY BEHAVIOR STARTED FROM THE BEGINNING! NOT AFTER SHE HAD AN AFFAIR! She had been living with his abuse for 2 years before she had an affair. Another BIG RED FLAG... she had NO ONE at the wedding! What 19 year old girl doesn't want her family & her friends at her wedding? He engineered it so that she had NO family or friends at her wedding! SHE DID NOT TRIGGER HIS OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR!

Simply put, Jeffrey knew from the beginning that no woman around his age would put up with his crap (back at 30), otherwise, he wouldn't be going after a nice, naive, young woman at 19. I have seen men like him. They control, manipulate, & dominate young women like her. A REAL man NEVER abuses a woman, whatever it's emotionally, or physically, & unfortunately, that's what's driven her to find another man to rescue her. All of the Jeffrey defenders need to wake up. You're basically defending a man for his actions. That is NO excuse for him to act like that. NONE. You either work out on the marriage, or get a divorce & move on, not become a controlling, dominating pig. I have no sympathy for this man at all.
I too understand and feel the same way.  I too had a husband who was obsessive like Jeffery.  I was in the same position Jennifer was in, but even more this man was not a citizen of the united states which I did not know. He was finally deported back to the united kingdom.  But he still does not get it that our marriage is over.  He still text message me and send me e-mails.  How did he get my number I don't know, but I understand Jennifer.  Yes this man needs help and he does not need to be out on the street.  He will try  to hurt her or anyone else.  Because if he can not get to her he will try to hurt others because he can not get to her.    This is the type.  Be plays games until he can get to her any kind of way possible.  He knows what he is doing and will do do what ever he has to do to get to her.
 
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May 10, 2007, 4:37 pm PDT

05/10 Obsessive Love: Secrets Revealed

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Before everyone starts blaming Jennifer,  read the transcripts of the last show; he admitted that he started this the minute they gotten married! She was a newlywed, she was PREGNANT, & he has no trust for her? He was recording her phone calls RIGHT AFTER they got married! HIS CRAZY BEHAVIOR STARTED FROM THE BEGINNING! NOT AFTER SHE HAD AN AFFAIR! She had been living with his abuse for 2 years before she had an affair. Another BIG RED FLAG... she had NO ONE at the wedding! What 19 year old girl doesn't want her family & her friends at her wedding? He engineered it so that she had NO family or friends at her wedding! SHE DID NOT TRIGGER HIS OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR!

Simply put, Jeffrey knew from the beginning that no woman around his age would put up with his crap (back at 30), otherwise, he wouldn't be going after a nice, naive, young woman at 19. I have seen men like him. They control, manipulate, & dominate young women like her. A REAL man NEVER abuses a woman, whatever it's emotionally, or physically, & unfortunately, that's what's driven her to find another man to rescue her. All of the Jeffrey defenders need to wake up. You're basically defending a man for his actions. That is NO excuse for him to act like that. NONE. You either work out on the marriage, or get a divorce & move on, not become a controlling, dominating pig. I have no sympathy for this man at all.

even though her jeffery had this odd behavior she still married him. she knew what he was like when she married him maybe she thought it would get better or he would change. She must of known that cheating would only make it WAY worse.

Like i said before she made her bed so she needs to lay in it. She did it to her self. she knew that he was crazy when she married him even if it got worse after they were just simply newlyweds then why in hell would she go out and cheat on him??

I think she just wants to play the "poor me act"

people are falling for it. Like i also said before he is a crazy $%&8 and he goes way to far but she must like the way shes  getting treated because she joined along with her husband in the "lets distroy our marriage game" and hes winning and she dont like it.

I mean c'mon they both know what they are doing? he knows that by being an immature crazy %^&*, will only make things worse. And she knew that sleeping with other people would make her husband go utterly insane.

they both need help!

I feel no remorse for her she needs to grow the hell up. if she really wanted her husband stop his behavior she would work with him and seek help together.  He needs to get extensive help. There really is something wrong with his brain.

 

 

 
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May 10, 2007, 4:40 pm PDT

they both need to seek help

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Before everyone starts blaming Jennifer,  read the transcripts of the last show; he admitted that he started this the minute they gotten married! She was a newlywed, she was PREGNANT, & he has no trust for her? He was recording her phone calls RIGHT AFTER they got married! HIS CRAZY BEHAVIOR STARTED FROM THE BEGINNING! NOT AFTER SHE HAD AN AFFAIR! She had been living with his abuse for 2 years before she had an affair. Another BIG RED FLAG... she had NO ONE at the wedding! What 19 year old girl doesn't want her family & her friends at her wedding? He engineered it so that she had NO family or friends at her wedding! SHE DID NOT TRIGGER HIS OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR!

Simply put, Jeffrey knew from the beginning that no woman around his age would put up with his crap (back at 30), otherwise, he wouldn't be going after a nice, naive, young woman at 19. I have seen men like him. They control, manipulate, & dominate young women like her. A REAL man NEVER abuses a woman, whatever it's emotionally, or physically, & unfortunately, that's what's driven her to find another man to rescue her. All of the Jeffrey defenders need to wake up. You're basically defending a man for his actions. That is NO excuse for him to act like that. NONE. You either work out on the marriage, or get a divorce & move on, not become a controlling, dominating pig. I have no sympathy for this man at all.

even though her jeffery had this odd behavior she still married him. she knew what he was like when she married him maybe she thought it would get better or he would change. She must of known that cheating would only make it WAY worse.

Like i said before she made her bed so she needs to lay in it. She did it to her self. she knew that he was crazy when she married him even if it got worse after they were just simply newlyweds then why in hell would she go out and cheat on him??

I think she just wants to play the "poor me act"

people are falling for it. Like i also said before he is a crazy $%&8 and he goes way to far but she must like the way shes  getting treated because she joined along with her husband in the "lets distroy our marriage game" and hes winning and she dont like it.

I mean c'mon they both know what they are doing? he knows that by being an immature crazy %^&*, will only make things worse. And she knew that sleeping with other people would make her husband go utterly insane.

they both need help!

I feel no remorse for her she needs to grow the hell up. if she really wanted her husband stop his behavior she would work with him and seek help together.  He needs to get extensive help. There really is something wrong with his brain.

 

 

 
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May 10, 2007, 6:57 pm PDT

05/10 Obsessive Love: Secrets Revealed

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Before everyone starts blaming Jennifer,  read the transcripts of the last show; he admitted that he started this the minute they gotten married! She was a newlywed, she was PREGNANT, & he has no trust for her? He was recording her phone calls RIGHT AFTER they got married! HIS CRAZY BEHAVIOR STARTED FROM THE BEGINNING! NOT AFTER SHE HAD AN AFFAIR! She had been living with his abuse for 2 years before she had an affair. Another BIG RED FLAG... she had NO ONE at the wedding! What 19 year old girl doesn't want her family & her friends at her wedding? He engineered it so that she had NO family or friends at her wedding! SHE DID NOT TRIGGER HIS OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR!

Simply put, Jeffrey knew from the beginning that no woman around his age would put up with his crap (back at 30), otherwise, he wouldn't be going after a nice, naive, young woman at 19. I have seen men like him. They control, manipulate, & dominate young women like her. A REAL man NEVER abuses a woman, whatever it's emotionally, or physically, & unfortunately, that's what's driven her to find another man to rescue her. All of the Jeffrey defenders need to wake up. You're basically defending a man for his actions. That is NO excuse for him to act like that. NONE. You either work out on the marriage, or get a divorce & move on, not become a controlling, dominating pig. I have no sympathy for this man at all.
Yup.  It's sad but true that the sweetest women are who attract the most stalkers.  Gavin de Becker said it succinctly:  People who can't say no attract people who won't let go. 
 
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May 10, 2007, 10:14 pm PDT

05/10 Obsessive Love: Secrets Revealed

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Before everyone starts blaming Jennifer,  read the transcripts of the last show; he admitted that he started this the minute they gotten married! She was a newlywed, she was PREGNANT, & he has no trust for her? He was recording her phone calls RIGHT AFTER they got married! HIS CRAZY BEHAVIOR STARTED FROM THE BEGINNING! NOT AFTER SHE HAD AN AFFAIR! She had been living with his abuse for 2 years before she had an affair. Another BIG RED FLAG... she had NO ONE at the wedding! What 19 year old girl doesn't want her family & her friends at her wedding? He engineered it so that she had NO family or friends at her wedding! SHE DID NOT TRIGGER HIS OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR!

Simply put, Jeffrey knew from the beginning that no woman around his age would put up with his crap (back at 30), otherwise, he wouldn't be going after a nice, naive, young woman at 19. I have seen men like him. They control, manipulate, & dominate young women like her. A REAL man NEVER abuses a woman, whatever it's emotionally, or physically, & unfortunately, that's what's driven her to find another man to rescue her. All of the Jeffrey defenders need to wake up. You're basically defending a man for his actions. That is NO excuse for him to act like that. NONE. You either work out on the marriage, or get a divorce & move on, not become a controlling, dominating pig. I have no sympathy for this man at all.
 I totally agree with you. I was in a marrige for 9 years where Iwas getting my butt kicked everyday and told I was sleeping witheveryone right down to the checker at the store while he was doing hisjob. (talk about mutli-tasking) I think she should get out of thisrelationship and get as many people in the town she lives in on her side to help keep him away from her legally. I know the built up anger I have towards my ex-husband and I really hope she can one day work past that and make a good life for her and her children. Kids see and hear so much more than parents think especially when they think mommy is gonna get hurt and I hope her children break the cycle and never place thier hands on thier spouse when they are older. I know it has been a long road for my children and I pray everyday that what I show them now far exceeds everything they saw before. Thank you for your responce on her cheating because you are right she never could have deserved anything she has been getting.
 


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