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May 10, 2007, 10:36 am PDT

Um, wrong.

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Not that what he is doing is right. it's not, but she shouldn't of cheated on him in the first place. when she made the decision to sleep with someone else she should of left than. sounds like the foolishness didn't start til she had the affairs. she also needs to get real. it takes two to make it or break it.
He was already like that before this craziness happened. Refer to my other post on this board to see what I'm talking about.
 
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May 10, 2007, 5:20 pm PDT

Obessive Love

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Not that what he is doing is right. it's not, but she shouldn't of cheated on him in the first place. when she made the decision to sleep with someone else she should of left than. sounds like the foolishness didn't start til she had the affairs. she also needs to get real. it takes two to make it or break it.

I agree with you on the fact that she should have never had an affair on her husband. No wonder he doesnt trust her . He is obviously out of contole.NUTS!!!! She needs to take responsiblity for the wrong that she has done .I think Jeffrey has every right to ask who that man was on the answering machine wanting to talk to his wife . The problem is ,is that she does not love her husband any more.She is not one to be trusted......

 
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May 11, 2007, 5:20 am PDT

Who said she cheated?

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Not that what he is doing is right. it's not, but she shouldn't of cheated on him in the first place. when she made the decision to sleep with someone else she should of left than. sounds like the foolishness didn't start til she had the affairs. she also needs to get real. it takes two to make it or break it.
I never heard her admit to cheating; it was just his false accusations . . . albeit, there are problems on both ends, I certainly wouldn't believe HIM at this point on anything he says!  And for your information, it does not take two to break  a marriage.  It takes two to make it, but one person can break the vows, refuse to make things right, refuse counseling, etc.  It does NOT take two to break it!  That's a trite saying that should be thought through before using!
 
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May 11, 2007, 7:22 am PDT

Before I posted!!!

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Not that what he is doing is right. it's not, but she shouldn't of cheated on him in the first place. when she made the decision to sleep with someone else she should of left than. sounds like the foolishness didn't start til she had the affairs. she also needs to get real. it takes two to make it or break it.
I went back to the first show and checked, this foolishness as you call it started as soon as he married her, NOT as you say after she cheated. Cheating is not right at all, but he was already spying on her, checking up on her and doing all the other sick things he does. He was accusing her long before she cheated. Dr. Phil has said many times on his show "That what you fear the most you creat."  Before making statements like this you need to check out the facts first.
 
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May 11, 2007, 7:28 am PDT

05/11 Obsessive Love: On the Run

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Not that what he is doing is right. it's not, but she shouldn't of cheated on him in the first place. when she made the decision to sleep with someone else she should of left than. sounds like the foolishness didn't start til she had the affairs. she also needs to get real. it takes two to make it or break it.
Horse Pooh Pooh - doesn't matter.  This guy is a sicko.  I am not justifying her affair, but there is NO reason for someone to control another human being, especially to that sick degree. 
 
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May 11, 2007, 8:45 am PDT

05/11 Obsessive Love: On the Run

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Not that what he is doing is right. it's not, but she shouldn't of cheated on him in the first place. when she made the decision to sleep with someone else she should of left than. sounds like the foolishness didn't start til she had the affairs. she also needs to get real. it takes two to make it or break it.
I dont think I seen anywhere on the show that he proved that she was cheating although I do believe she was trying to find anyway out of this marriage even if it was to be with another man I guess you would have to be abused to understand why she would look to another man to try to find a way out of this crazy marriage. although there was something that bothered me at the end of fridays show that knowing how crazy he was why in the world would you taunt him with the pictures of you and other men on the internet I dont believe your friends posted them I believe you did.And that is not a good way to protect your children by sending him over the edge to hurt your family .But anyways GOOD FOR YOU I,M PROUD OF WHAT YOU DID AND WISH I HAD YOUR COURAGE GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN his asuming you cheated was no excuse for his actions
 
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May 11, 2007, 9:58 am PDT

05/11 Obsessive Love: On the Run

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Not that what he is doing is right. it's not, but she shouldn't of cheated on him in the first place. when she made the decision to sleep with someone else she should of left than. sounds like the foolishness didn't start til she had the affairs. she also needs to get real. it takes two to make it or break it.
Good Lord!  He started this before the affairs that is what drove her to have the affairs!  You are probably one those that if he kills her will say she deserved it.
 
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May 11, 2007, 10:05 am PDT

05/11 Obsessive Love: On the Run

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Not that what he is doing is right. it's not, but she shouldn't of cheated on him in the first place. when she made the decision to sleep with someone else she should of left than. sounds like the foolishness didn't start til she had the affairs. she also needs to get real. it takes two to make it or break it.

It wouldnt matter what she did or didnt do. He's an abuser. He'd make up a reason to behave the way he behaves. When you're married to an abusive person, the normal rules go out the window. Saying it takes two in an abusive situation is utter stupidity. It's ignorant of what abuse is, how abusers behave and its victim blaming in its most disgusting, repugnant form. Pick up a book and educate yourself  for Gods sake, before you spout off crap like that and perpetuate the belief that women do something to be abused.

 

And FYI, since you evidently missed it (not surprisingly) this all started before they were married and he didnt allow any of her family to attend.
 
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May 11, 2007, 12:55 pm PDT

It's NOT her fault!

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Not that what he is doing is right. it's not, but she shouldn't of cheated on him in the first place. when she made the decision to sleep with someone else she should of left than. sounds like the foolishness didn't start til she had the affairs. she also needs to get real. it takes two to make it or break it.

I can't believe you're putting ANY blame on Jennifer! That makes no sense whatsoever! That was a very long time ago. And many, *many* people have been cheated on way in the past *without* going absolutely flat-out crazy like Jeffrey has! Give me a break!

 

He's a control freak; he's completely crazy! He SO creeps me out! I don't think Jennifer should ever be near him again--he's WAY over the edge! I've never seen anyone on Dr. Phil's show--or any other show--who creeps me out as much as this guy. IF he even gets to see his children (& he probably will), he should definitely be supervised--by someone who can make sure he doesn't try to grab the kids & run. Poor kids! Blaming it on Jennifer is so wrong! We all make mistakes; we're all human. It's NOT her fault! Dr. Phil said that & I completely agree.

 

This is a guy who will do ANYTHING to feed his obsession. If he doesn't do anything (& I pray he doesn't) to put himself in jail, he should definitely be committed. There's something terribly wrong with this man! And he doesn't even know it! He has no idea how nuts he is! That's why he's so dangerous! Even her lawyers agreed that she had to leave her house to get away from Jeffrey. I've been in therapy (after my dad died), and, believe me, from what I know, docs are NOT eager to label someone "crazy." But his doctor SAID he was crazy!

 

Jennifer, you & your children are in my thoughts & prayers. Please know that you have a lot of people praying for you! {{{hug}}} I wish I could help you more. If you ever need to just talk, contact me at joyjoybinks43@yahoo. com (but take the space out before "com"). That's my alternate email address--not my main one, but I'll check it.

 

Jeffrey is obviously completely out of it--crazy! I don't know if even Creative Care can help Jeffrey; he's still manipulating & lying. He's crazy enough to think she's having an affair...when would she have time for that with all he's putting her through?? He's INSANE! For those of you who don't get it, JEFFREY IS COMPLETELY INSANE! He's a creep who isn't normal! I'm just so glad that Jennifer has Dr. Phil & her lawyer's help--and now a judge. Thank God that he's been exposed for the insane weirdo that he is.

 

And I just saw that he's in jail. Great!! That's exactly where he should be! I just hope he stays there for a very, very long time! Total nutcase!

 

Joy
 
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May 11, 2007, 3:42 pm PDT

05/11 Obsessive Love: On the Run

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Not that what he is doing is right. it's not, but she shouldn't of cheated on him in the first place. when she made the decision to sleep with someone else she should of left than. sounds like the foolishness didn't start til she had the affairs. she also needs to get real. it takes two to make it or break it.

Very true, but he is totally whacked.

 

People cheat all the time, divorces get nasty etc.  But Jeffrey seriously creeped me out.
 
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