Quote From: lily2007Have you talked about it to him?
Is the porn getting in the way?
Now - I strongly believe that you can't change your body to please someone else. I have changed mine because it was result of using excercise as a crutch when I couldn't find a way to tell my husband I needed to be touched and loved.
But if you don't feel good about yourself - start there first.
What have you tried so far to get his attention? Remember there could be all sorts of things going on with him too. Try to be understanding.
It's not easy. And me giving that advice seems like the pot calling the kettle black - I'm struggeling with it daily.
Good luck - I'll check in later.
I hear what you are saying. I love him and will except him not matter what. Sometimes it is really hard, to except that he just does not want to make love with me. He is there, and I should be thankful that he is even here.
I am just really very insecure since the accident and him not wanting to touch me. Just playing around, but he does that with everyong.
Thank you for you insight.
