Replies to '05/11 Obsessive Love: On the Run'

Jenifer definately needs Dr. Phils' help.  If you will recall Dr. Phil has already sustained that he will intervene if Jeff did not change after his treatment, all she has to do is say the word.  We all have our opinions on this situation, and relationship related philosophy.  But until you have walked a mile in another woman or mans' shoes none of us will know. I come from an extremely disfunctional home and my relationships have suffered from the x-tra baggage.  And until I got some help to get things figured out I was confused and lost.  I learned so much about myself in college, and how to deal with all that negativity that it seems so simple now, but when you are in the middle of it as Jenifer is you have a hard time thinking clearly.

However this man is a very sick man.  That is all too apparent.  If something is not done and quickly, this could be a devastating preclude.  I have had this problem as well, maybe not to the degree of Jenifers' situation, but all the same it was  horrorfying.

In as much as a man saying, 'why does another man always get the beautiful woman and treat her badly'?  Well, apparently he has not walked a mile in that womans' shoes, or even attempted to put himself in her place.  And this; because let us face it, most men are clueless when it comes to a woman to begin with.  And he probably has as much x-tra baggage as Jeff does.  Sometimes a woman has just been in the situation so long she freezes up like a computer does.  She has had to live like that for so long she is frightened to make the move she needs to.  She has children to think of and I'm sure that is frightening enough.  That is why she contacted Dr. Phil, the last resort, no where else to go.  And she knew that Dr. Phil has the resources to help her.  I commend her for her choice of resource.