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May 9, 2007, 2:06 pm PDT
He will not change
Quote From: calkauaigirlWhy even consider staying? These guys rarely change. Given what he has done in the past, who knows the extent of his capacity to wound. It is not about love but rather power and he is in this to win. She needs to get out now and get those children out and get into therapy. Every day she stays she loses a little more of herself and the children are learning what they are living. I am speaking from experience. My oldest son was an absolute delight to raise. He was so kind and caring. Today I barely recognize my son. It is like he died and a stranger uses his name. All of my children were wounded and they lost respect for me. And, I didn't protect them or myself and get out when the abuse started. I have paid a great price for allowing abuse. It is only by the grace of God that I have any sanity left. Jennifer needs to get out of this marriage. She has one life to live, and it should not be with this man. He is a psycho, and he will NEVER CHANGE. I don't know what happened in this man's past, but he certainly did not become so insecure because Jennifer cheated on him. Somewhere inside of Jennifer there is a ME that will surface through the work with Dr. Phil. Jennifer, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. For your own sanity, and your children's well being leave, and don't look back.
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