Replies to 'Afraid to Ask for What You Want Sexually?'

I'm new to the Dr. Phil web site. I've been watching him since he was on Oprah. I'm only 23 and I read his books and try to take all his advice.

Here's my problem I hope to get some help on. I've been in a relationship now for almost 8 months. We did move things very fast in the beggining. We live together and have for most of the relatioship. My boyfriend is 33 and has more experience than I have. We had issues we have worked through in our relationship and love each other alot. The one thing that still really bothers me is our sex life. Its maybe 2 times in a month. I'm a sexually active person. In the beginning of our relationship sex was almost every day. Then as we had our problems it got less and less and to where is it now. We talked about our sex life before and we assumed that if we were doing better and more attracted to each other because we weren't fighting our sex life would increase. Well it hasn't. He also doesn't talk to me in any sexual manner like telling me I'm beautiful. He has never told me I'm sexy. We never talk about what we like either about sex, because he doesn't like to. He tells me " well try it and see if I like it. " I know hes attracted to me but he never tells me I am to him. He seems though the type of person not to be sexual. He works alot and own his own buisness. Hes stressed most of the time or pre occupied. I don't know how to talk to him about sex or get him to tell me things like I am beautiful or sexy. I have talked to him about before and nothing has changed. Can someone help me?!