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May 10, 2007, 4:00 pm PDT
Gag me.
Quote From: rachelreiI don't think you should talk about sex seriously or take it seriously. It will make him feel like he HAS to do it rather than he WANTS to do it. Try to make it fun and unpredictable.
My boyfriend was rather shy about sex when we first started dating. But I was more open about it and I feel like I opened him up. He knows he has sexual desires but was too shy to express it.
The way I did it was telling him how sexy HE is and how I like to please HIM. I know you want him to tell you how sexy you are but first, do you tell him that? I think if you satisfy the guy sexually and make him feel special, you will get the same treatment. And when he does try to please you, don't forget to tell him how good he is.
I try to be sexy all the time and he loves it. Now he is able to say nasty things to me and we have a fun sex life! I think that you should be able to talk to him about sex. If he cares you then he will listen to your feelings and try to make you happy. Yes I know that goes both ways. I believe that everything should be equal in relationships except when it comes to sex. I think the guy should do more for the woman. The man needs to make his partner feel wanted and sexy, not the other way around. That doesn't mean never tell him how sexy he is and how much you want him. You should do that for your man but he should do it more for you.
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