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May 10, 2007, 4:36 pm PDT

I agree

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 I think that you should be able to talk to him about sex. If he cares you then he will listen to your feelings and try to make you happy.  Yes I know that goes both ways. I believe that everything should be equal in relationships except when it comes to sex. I think the guy should do more for the woman. The man needs to make his partner feel wanted and sexy, not the other way around. That doesn't mean never tell him how sexy he is and how much you want him. You should do that for your man but he should do it more for you.
I totally agree with what you said about the Man making the woman feeling sexy and wanted. I have this problem with my man. He doesn't really make feel sexy or wanted.
 
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May 12, 2007, 3:32 am PDT

talk about sex is OK but what if doesn't work....?

Quote From: moodymitzy

 I think that you should be able to talk to him about sex. If he cares you then he will listen to your feelings and try to make you happy.  Yes I know that goes both ways. I believe that everything should be equal in relationships except when it comes to sex. I think the guy should do more for the woman. The man needs to make his partner feel wanted and sexy, not the other way around. That doesn't mean never tell him how sexy he is and how much you want him. You should do that for your man but he should do it more for you.

I agree but all Im saying is you can't force a man to say what you want him to say. It should come from his heart. And from MY experience, I did make a shy man embrace himself and be comfortable with sex. He tells me I'm sexy, he tells me I'm beautiful but I never told him to say that to me.

Anyhow, I wish a better sexlife for the both of them. 

 


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