Quote From: jenn53It is apparent to me and anyone else with an ounce of intelligence that if Jennifer cheated on him it was an act of self preservation. This crap didn't just start because she had an affair. I bet you if someone looks into his background they will find out that he has exhibited these behaviors in his childhood in some form or another. He has the type of personality to have explained this bizarre behavior away. It is so unbelievable the rational mind doesn't want to accept this kind of behavior as real and so it is quite easy to dismiss it. If it is just now showing itself then he has gone to incredible lenths to hide it from the world. This man is terribly disturbed. The only problem that Jennifer has is having been incredibly niave and being taken in by this person at the beginning. He sought out her type and took full advantage of her. He is a predator and he always has been. He didn't just wake up one day, discover his wife was having an affair and lose his mind. He has been disconnected from reality for a long time. Anyone who attempts to assign even a modicum of blame on Jennifer obviously resides on the same planet as jeffery. And what is wrong with that doctor....not admitting that Jeffery is a danger to Jennifer. Maybe he is afraid of being sued.
You are SO right about the affair NOT causing this; the man is sick and dangerous. However, this 'act of self preservation" you state is not correct.
Affairs are ALWAYS wrong and ALWAYS incredibly selish. If her intent were "self preservation," it would make more sense to get away, not add fuel to the fire. And yes, I do have an "ounce of intelligence" (much more than that:).
Correct again....Jennifer is NOT to blame for this man's mental problems. It's sad that she were not wiser and stronger, but then again he picked her (at the young age of 19) becuase he wanted someone he could control.
