Quote From: bibi_booI wonder what makes you think it is different to be a 'wife'? You are still you and still his partner, right? Do you think anything will change once you two get married? I wouldn't feel relaxed if I did... I feel by marrying my bf the only thing changing will be the legal part.
I'm sorry, I'm probably not helping, but I must admit I never had any doubts about marrying my bf... But judging by the very first part of your story you haven't much to worry about! Just stop thinking about the 'being a wife' part, you're not changing!
thanks for your reply!
im actually feeling much better about it, and your right, for some reason i have this idea in my head that being a "wife" means i have to COMPLETELY grow up. its weird. i'm the type of person that gets very anxious when there are big changes, so i knew this was gonna happen at some point =)
