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May 11, 2007, 2:14 pm PDT
 Quote From: joyjoybink I can't believe you're putting ANY blame on Jennifer! That makes no sense whatsoever! That was a very long time ago. And many, *many* people have been cheated on way in the past *without* going absolutely flat-out crazy like Jeffrey has! Give me a break!
He's a control freak; he's completely crazy! He SO creeps me out! I don't think Jennifer should ever be near him again--he's WAY over the edge! I've never seen anyone on Dr. Phil's show--or any other show--who creeps me out as much as this guy. IF he even gets to see his children (& he probably will), he should definitely be supervised--by someone who can make sure he doesn't try to grab the kids & run. Poor kids! Blaming it on Jennifer is so wrong! We all make mistakes; we're all human. It's NOT her fault! Dr. Phil said that & I completely agree.
This is a guy who will do ANYTHING to feed his obsession. If he doesn't do anything (& I pray he doesn't) to put himself in jail, he should definitely be committed. There's something terribly wrong with this man! And he doesn't even know it! He has no idea how nuts he is! That's why he's so dangerous! Even her lawyers agreed that she had to leave her house to get away from Jeffrey. I've been in therapy (after my dad died), and, believe me, from what I know, docs are NOT eager to label someone "crazy." But his doctor SAID he was crazy!
Jennifer, you & your children are in my thoughts & prayers. Please know that you have a lot of people praying for you! hug I wish I could help you more. If you ever need to just talk, contact me at joyjoybinks43@yahoo. com (but take the space out before "com"). That's my alternate email address--not my main one, but I'll check it.
Jeffrey is obviously completely out of it--crazy! I don't know if even Creative Care can help Jeffrey; he's still manipulating & lying. He's crazy enough to think she's having an affair...when would she have time for that with all he's putting her through?? He's INSANE! For those of you who don't get it, JEFFREY IS COMPLETELY INSANE! He's a creep who isn't normal! I'm just so glad that Jennifer has Dr. Phil & her lawyer's help--and now a judge. Thank God that he's been exposed for the insane weirdo that he is.
And I just saw that he's in jail. Great!! That's exactly where he should be! I just hope he stays there for a very, very long time! Total nutcase!
Joy I agree with you 100%. As I wached this story I could see myself all over again. My ex-husband was exactly the same way. I got away from him while he was in prison, after he kidknapped our daughter and went on the run with her. I was searching for her for two days before I found her. The police acted like I was crazy. And needless to say I did get a divorce. But he still did'nt change, last year he was on a police chase and shot at the police, ran into a gas station and took a hostage, it ended in a standoff that lasted for over 16 hours and a shootout with the police, in which he was killed, shot 6 times. Me and my daughter was there and witnessed the whole thing. It was bitter sweet. For my daughter my heart aches that she had to witness this, but its finally over!!!!!! I pray that she does not go threw what I did, but the man is crazy, and will stop at nothing to get to her or hurt her, and the only way will be threw the kids. My thoughts and prayers are with you all! |
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May 13, 2007, 6:03 am PDT
Quote From: joyjoybink I can't believe you're putting ANY blame on Jennifer! That makes no sense whatsoever! That was a very long time ago. And many, *many* people have been cheated on way in the past *without* going absolutely flat-out crazy like Jeffrey has! Give me a break!
He's a control freak; he's completely crazy! He SO creeps me out! I don't think Jennifer should ever be near him again--he's WAY over the edge! I've never seen anyone on Dr. Phil's show--or any other show--who creeps me out as much as this guy. IF he even gets to see his children (& he probably will), he should definitely be supervised--by someone who can make sure he doesn't try to grab the kids & run. Poor kids! Blaming it on Jennifer is so wrong! We all make mistakes; we're all human. It's NOT her fault! Dr. Phil said that & I completely agree.
This is a guy who will do ANYTHING to feed his obsession. If he doesn't do anything (& I pray he doesn't) to put himself in jail, he should definitely be committed. There's something terribly wrong with this man! And he doesn't even know it! He has no idea how nuts he is! That's why he's so dangerous! Even her lawyers agreed that she had to leave her house to get away from Jeffrey. I've been in therapy (after my dad died), and, believe me, from what I know, docs are NOT eager to label someone "crazy." But his doctor SAID he was crazy!
Jennifer, you & your children are in my thoughts & prayers. Please know that you have a lot of people praying for you! hug I wish I could help you more. If you ever need to just talk, contact me at joyjoybinks43@yahoo. com (but take the space out before "com"). That's my alternate email address--not my main one, but I'll check it.
Jeffrey is obviously completely out of it--crazy! I don't know if even Creative Care can help Jeffrey; he's still manipulating & lying. He's crazy enough to think she's having an affair...when would she have time for that with all he's putting her through?? He's INSANE! For those of you who don't get it, JEFFREY IS COMPLETELY INSANE! He's a creep who isn't normal! I'm just so glad that Jennifer has Dr. Phil & her lawyer's help--and now a judge. Thank God that he's been exposed for the insane weirdo that he is.
And I just saw that he's in jail. Great!! That's exactly where he should be! I just hope he stays there for a very, very long time! Total nutcase!
Joy
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May 11, 2007, 8:45 am PDT
05/11 Obsessive Love: On the RunQuote From: sabrinaspell12 Not that what he is doing is right. it's not, but she shouldn't of cheated on him in the first place. when she made the decision to sleep with someone else she should of left than. sounds like the foolishness didn't start til she had the affairs. she also needs to get real. it takes two to make it or break it. I dont think I seen anywhere on the show that he proved that she was cheating although I do believe she was trying to find anyway out of this marriage even if it was to be with another man I guess you would have to be abused to understand why she would look to another man to try to find a way out of this crazy marriage. although there was something that bothered me at the end of fridays show that knowing how crazy he was why in the world would you taunt him with the pictures of you and other men on the internet I dont believe your friends posted them I believe you did.And that is not a good way to protect your children by sending him over the edge to hurt your family .But anyways GOOD FOR YOU I,M PROUD OF WHAT YOU DID AND WISH I HAD YOUR COURAGE GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN his asuming you cheated was no excuse for his actions
I agree with everyone that this man is crazily obsessed and a total control nut, BUT...I will also say that I agree with what Gsulli said above. Why on earth would Jennifer have attended a party where other men would be present with her marriage and life in the state it is? Why on earth would she be hugging on other men when her marriage and life is in the state it is? Why on earth would she allow photos to be taken of herself and other men when her marriage and her life is in the state it is? And why on earth did she allow those photos to be posted ANYWHERE that jeffrey could see them? And my God.....why didn't she change her password to her email and Myspace account when she KNEW jeffrey had the password? Could it be that she WANTED him to see them? Ya think? Maybe?
She is definitely in a marriage that she needs to get out of, and I agree that jeffrey is dangerous, BUT I don't see her as the innocent that she's been portrayed as on the show. There were times when her crying came across as very contrived and just a tad bit forced. She would start to laugh about something and then it looked like she realized she needed to be crying instead of laughing, so she'd turn the tears on. I would have liked to see Dr. Phil ask her why she attended a party and then cozied up with men there and allowed pictures to be taken knowing that this would likely get back to jeffrey. She HAD to know it was going to enrage jeffrey, so I can't help but think she did it on purpose. Either that or this gal has NO sense of propriety. I normally agree with Dr. Phil, but I firmly believe he should have questioned Jennifer's thought process in regards to that party and allowing pictures to be taken. In the end, it served to upset jeffrey even more and she had to know it would push him to the point that she would have a good excuse to go ahead and leave the marriage without waiting on jeffrety to complete his treatment. I think she initially went on the show with the intentions of a divorce anyway, so she should have just been honest with Dr. Phil about that from the beginning and told him regardless of jeffrey's treatment, she wanted out. She was probably afraid he wouldn't pay for her divorce and the high powered attorney, otherwise.
I certainly don't want to be a "blame the victim" person and I do, with all my heart, wish jennifer and her children well. I'm just saying that I feel I saw another side of Jennifer that keeps her from being the completely innocent victim she seems to want people to think she is.
Stay safe, Jennifer and kids! |
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