Quote From: twoqtsHe did NOT abide by the rules.. he was not to contact her. He was phoning her from 2 to 15 times per day.. sometimes till 3 am. That is NOT abiding by the rules!!
She'd already tried to file for divorce & her found the papers & destroyed them. That's when he called Dr Phil to try to 'put Jennifer straight' & convince her to stay in the marriage.
His calling her repeatedly every day although he was not supposed to contact her would sure be proof enough for me that he wasn't serious about changing his behaviour. He continued to try to control her while he was so-called 'in treatment.' So naturally he pushed her straight to the lawyer & I do not blame her. But then, I was in a similar abusive marriage (but not this extreme)
Most abusers do NOT change; but most will agree to therapy, sometimes for months or years, in a bid to continue to manipulate their victims. This is a fact.
you have an obviously one sided view of reality. I'm sorry that you were in an abusive relationship, but you probably weren't like her. She is JUST as gulily as him. she answered the phone, responded to messages, etc. . .
I'm sorry that you are so unable to see what is really going on with people, That's tough
