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Not all women are like this at all.  Both men and women have a tendency to totally disrespect their marriage vows.  I am a woman.  I just got out of a bad marriage where he decided that my best friend would be a great "replacement" for me.   In my opinion,  anyone who does not respect their partner enough to keep their promises is not worth having.  I can only speak for myself, but I have never and will never cheat on anyone.  I have a big heart, and I try to live by the golden rule.  My point is that I can't possibly be the only woman who thinks like this.  If you look, you will find a person who looks good and behaves herself.   Good luck and best wishes-K- Sunshine

Check what kind of women you are looking at again. Men never want to be categorized but isn't that what you are doing to women. Not all women are like that, don't try and give us good women a bad name. It is hard enough for us as it is. And what about the men who only want little skinny supermodel type women, bigger woman are worthy of love too. Do you think that all women go into relationships without any feelings involved? Woman are 9 times out of ten the ones who get their feelings heart in a relationship. Do you guys realize how devistating it is to spend 1, 2, or even 3 years of your life with someone to find out you are not what they want or that they can't be satisfied with just one woman, and you have to start completely over again and again. Don't stereotype woman and we won't stereotype men.

Eh, what can you do if you are heterosexual though? Orgasms are better in pairs. I'm 28 and have been rejected by pretty much every woman. The few who have hit on me were either involved with another man or woman, and/or into multipartner sex. Its not like I don't hit on women, or am totally superficial. Thursday I asked a woman out who has repeatedly initiated conversation with me before class. She's an environmental science student that usually talks to me about politics or Buffy, so I told her she was welcome to join me in seeing Serenity friday night. She said she couldn't go friday because she had to go to a topless resteraunt that night. I am a little confused as to whether she is a lesbian or a stripper (my understanding is both.) Eitherway we may end up friends, and the more the merrier, but like why can't lesbians speak with a distinctive lisp or something like most gay guys? Lesbian stereotypes are totally useless. Most the women with short hair and baggy pants around here are straight. Ok, so getting rejected for sapphic reasons is probably the easiest form of rejection, unless of course the guy knows you are lying. Last night I got rejected with a lie in a manner that would have previously lead to depression. A woman came to a party I was at and asked if anyone could break her into her house for her. I did (the host verified she lived there,) we ended up talking and eventually she came back to the party with me. When she towards the morning left I asked her for her phone number and she said she didn't have a phone. A college boy sitting nearby said "Dude, that was cold," to her as she left as he had overheard earlier conversation. Earlier said she was having problems with her dial up connection upon finding out I make money setting up and securing computer networks. She smiled. Women seem to have fun degrading men. Most of my friends are women, but its no help. Three female friends last week complained about their lack of a sex life, though trust me that was no hint towards me. One was going on about some guy with a large penis. The second seems to focus on cute boys more than 10 years younger. The third basically physically desired and was courting an ex-boyfriend she had previously told me was disrespectful. And I mean this is a small percentage of the women I've been rejected by, but it is pretty reflective of the general picture. Another woman who turned me down had previously said I'm like talking to a gay guy. Well, I'm not. I don't even know why she said that as I am far from stylishly metrosexual, ex-military, and slightly more libertarian than liberal. The funny thing is after she said this I went to a gay bar and guys hit on me right away; guys that I knew most women would find attractive. Alas even though personality wise I find them more appealing, physically I am only attracted to women. I guess I can't go that far "outside the box" and that certain physical features are essential. At this point it no longer hurts. I just don't respect women. Don't take this to mean I am a woman-hater. I just can't respect the gender that repeatedly implies I am beneath them and continue to respect myself. Its not that I'm coming off wrong, they simply don't want me for who I am. Wheel chair dude, you are in the same boat. You only decent chance would indicate a need for cash. Perhaps you could sell a show to Fox in which you trick women into thinking you are rich (with their help.) And Mr. Ship dude, don't think that it is simply these females can't find men. They have been conditioned to lust certain characteristics we don't possess, and it has nothing to do with your ability to raise a child. On the bright side, I've realized sexual attraction is by no means subject to agency. The nature vs. nurture debate is irrelavant as eitherway it is not a matter of will. I will always be attracted to women, and for much the same reason it isn't their fault they aren't attracted to me. Thank god for high speed internet. At least the love in Onanism is requited and I can totally have it 5 times a day if I want.