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May 13, 2007, 3:26 pm PDT

If you watch, you might be surprised...

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I probably won't watch, just another show about parents who want to live vicariously through their kids, though I do worry about the kids who won't "Measure Up" so to speak, its one thing to encourage and support your child's dreams and aspirations, but I wonder if Dakota Fanning's Mother might be able to shed some light on the reality of stardom, I mean how do you keep the child grounded, when Mom is walking around with the dollar signs or stars in her eyes.

Lindsay Lohan

Brittany Spears

Dana Plato

Michael Jackson

Does anyone know what these people all have in common ?

If you actually take the time to watch the show, you might be surprised to find that the trailers only tell part of the story.  You might see that although there's certainly behavior anyone would find less than healthy and likely a little embarrassing for the mother's involved and their families, you might also see some kids with some true talent and authentic ambition to achieve a dream that is entirely their own dream.

 

For every Lindsay Lohan, there's a Jodie Foster.  My other child has a very regular life in a small town in Kentucky and I can tell you that he faces just as many challenges and temptations as does my daughter in Hollywood.

 

Plus, I'm not so sure anyone should close the books on what a clearly bright and talented woman like Lindsay Lohan might achieve before its all said and done.  Anyone remember Madonna or Angelena Jolie?

 

Being a critic is always the easiest of occupations.  These parents, flawed as they may be, are mostly loving parents who want the best for their children are willing to go to great lengths to demonstrate that love even when the message is filtered through their own human imperfection :-)

 

So, let's all watch and see what we think after the finale next Monday!

 

Respectfully,

Gracie's Dad

 
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May 16, 2007, 11:19 am PDT

CALM DOWN EUC OMG

Quote From: ceildh1

I probably won't watch, just another show about parents who want to live vicariously through their kids, though I do worry about the kids who won't "Measure Up" so to speak, its one thing to encourage and support your child's dreams and aspirations, but I wonder if Dakota Fanning's Mother might be able to shed some light on the reality of stardom, I mean how do you keep the child grounded, when Mom is walking around with the dollar signs or stars in her eyes.

Lindsay Lohan

Brittany Spears

Dana Plato

Michael Jackson

Does anyone know what these people all have in common ?

Wow, you got that list just right to make your point. I agree. If the parent wants it more than the child, abuses them (knowingly or unknowingly) along the way and the child fails is damaging. The child stars you listed did make it and the pressure either destroyed or messed up their lives.

I thought it interesting the way each Mom took the news of Gracie winning. I have known people who have done revenge on someone. That person becomes a target because the revenging person has fallen short of a goal the other achieved. That is WHACK! Then you have he other mother who said it was a set up. If you cant see clearly how to move on you will keep falling short.  Then the Mom who constantly tore her daughter down.    EUC   OMG!  Kept teller her to be positive while ripping her apart. And she couldn't see that?  I think this little girl needs classes for acting and singing without the mother within 5 miles of the place. She needs an agent who can gag and tie her to a chair days before an audition and she might make it.

 

Gracie, I would love to see her in movies, on Nick, and a Christmas special.  Kyrian, What  a cutie pie. I would love to see him on each of those as well.  The others need more work and may need to take other direction. Go for your DREAM not someone else's. 

 


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