Replies to 'Ready for Marriage?'

I feel for you my dear.

I think if you love a person you must love them no matter what kind of situation they find themselves in. A financial crisis is a very stressful situation and when you have a support system around you it eases the burden and makes you focus more on bettering the situation.

Your boyfriend is being selfish and unloving, he wants you only when you don't have problems but does not have the love to help you to get ou of a crisis. He should remember that problems are invertible and next time it might be him.

My advice is that don't take him to heart, get all the help you can get from people who love you enough to help you out of a rough time. Focus all you herat and energy in getting your business out a bad situation. Talk to him and let him know that you feel he is not supporting you and that one of his responsibilities as a boyfriend is to support you; even if he does not give you money, just being there to give you a hand when you need it, a shoulder to cry on and a massage after a lond day of working 3 man jobs. You need him to understand and act like he is understanding your situation. Help you with ideas of how best to deal with you situation. That is the most romantic thing he can do for you.