Replies to 'Teen Dating'

Hi Starjammir, 

You remind me of so many people. Myself included when I was younger. Consequently I can tell you easily you, like so many other young men, are going about things all wrong. What you are doing is tearing this girl apart. I had a boyfriend in high school who I could have gone out with me easily and with no horrid hassles from my folks, if he had been willing to get me home on time, and come in and befriend my folks. He was unable to behave, so my life was a living hell of sneaking, getting caught, and being disdained by the folks I still needed to become established properly in life. She is young enough to still need her parents to finish her education and get her feet on the ground. If you do not allow her to do that before you whisk her away, then you will be gaining a fledgling for a mate, as will you likely be one yourself.  You and she are building your futures NOW.  

Try to consider these things before losing your head completely and doing something rash. She needs you to be smart about things. Not defiant. Seek a peaceful way to get along with her parents, if at all possible. It will enhance your lives immeasurably if you can. 

I will say a prayer for you. Please let us know how things go. 

I'll keep a look out. 

MarthaAnna