Replies to '05/11 Obsessive Love: On the Run'

 Another supporter of abusive men comes to Jeffrey's aid. 

Quit giving abusers power by telling them that everyone should be afraid of them forever and ever amen. 

Take away their power by exposing them.  Take away their power by calling them on their behavior.  Take away their power by helping the abused know that they have every right to live their life free from abuse. 

Take away their power by not giving into it yourself, even you who are not subjected to it, are caving into Jeffrey's abuse.
You are assisting the abuser by telling any woman in that situation that she should go along with it. 

Did you miss the part of the show where she is financially, emotionally, controlled.  How about him tracking her?  How about the abuse of the children whenever he wants to excuse his behavior by hiding behind them.  Not to mention what his kids are seeing as they watch daddy spend hours tracking mommy on the computer. 

Did you notice how he cut off her co-workers and caused her to lose her job?

He wants to cut her off until she has no one but him to come to so he can control her exclusively.  And you would love to help him do that. 

Maybe you could call her mother and tell her how unfit Jennifer is so that she will have more evidence that her daughter is a slut just like Jeffrey told her. 

Jennifer is reaching out in anyway she can to connect to other people so that if the day comes where she ends up dead, someone will notice she is gone.  She chose myspace to try to get a little contact.

Jeffrey chose to go on the Dr. Phil show and hoped to manipulate not only Dr. Phil, but also the psychiatrist, the producers. and the audience.  He tried to manipulate the police.  The man has no boundaries.  He is a loose cannon. 

How do you see the minutia while missing the big picture?