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changaleer
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May 20, 2007, 1:43 pm PDT

05/23 Secret Love: The Aftermath

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Look, I'm a guy & I know what she did was wrong, & should be ashamed for that, & what I'm trying to say is, you can replace another man, but you can't replace another relative.
Why on earth would you want to keep that kind of a relative close to you?   Just because you share the same genetics doesn't mean you have to share your lives.
 
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May 21, 2007, 8:32 am PDT

Oh, I had thought you just had the names transposed.

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Look, I'm a guy & I know what she did was wrong, & should be ashamed for that, & what I'm trying to say is, you can replace another man, but you can't replace another relative.

Oh, I had thought you just had the names transposed. But you really think this is a good idea? DNA should never be the sole reason to keep anyone in your life in such a intimate position, especially one whose so remorseless after such a huge betrayal.
 
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May 23, 2007, 7:27 am PDT

People are NOT replaceable

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Look, I'm a guy & I know what she did was wrong, & should be ashamed for that, & what I'm trying to say is, you can replace another man, but you can't replace another relative.

Some men, maybe not you specifically, are pretty much irreplaceable.

 I can not imagine just up and replacing my husband with another man.  He is the father of my children and the love of my life.

 While family is extremely important to both of us we would never allow one of them the power to ruin our lives merely because of a genetic tie.

You can't replace ANY person in your life... you can choose what their role will be, you can choose to limit or eliminate contact, you can choose to allow them influence in what you do or you can choose to include a new person in your life that enhances and uplifts your  world.

 

Blood may be thicker than water but it can  leave a heck of a stain.
 
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May 23, 2007, 12:13 pm PDT

With relatives like that...

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Look, I'm a guy & I know what she did was wrong, & should be ashamed for that, & what I'm trying to say is, you can replace another man, but you can't replace another relative.
With relatives like that, who needs enemies?!  Some relatives shouldn't be replaced.  While I agree that she can replace her man, things get a little more complicated and emotionally harder when there are kids involved.  It's a sad situation all around.  While Virginia is a real piece of work (and by that I mean piece of ****) I think she was telling the truth when she said that her son-in-law tokes out with his stepson, which is just pathetic and sad, but he is not a man of high morals so no surprise.
 
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susandeli
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May 24, 2007, 8:25 pm PDT

Secret Love: The Aftermath

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Look, I'm a guy & I know what she did was wrong, & should be ashamed for that, & what I'm trying to say is, you can replace another man, but you can't replace another relative.
I agree with you. My sister and x-husband had a fling , I got rid of the husband and kept my sister. After all blood is thicker than water.
 
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