Replies to '05/23 Secret Love: The Aftermath'

That's a very dismissive & simplistic way to see this. Go on with your life because all you have to do is just keep an eye on them both, because it takes two, and to forgive and never forget? There's so much more to it than that. At the very least I would think it's best to stay away from the sister at all costs until the husband & wife are healed & united completely and only when the sister has true remorse for her participation & contributions to their family's hardships.

 

Just as the husband had a choice in his behaviors, the sister did as well & should be held accountable as well.

 

Why should the wife be so forgiving because the adulterous woman was her sister? Obviously DNA meant nothing to her to be able to sleep with her brother-in-law.

if that was MY sister sleeping MY husband i'd be pissed with both and I would cut her out of my life.  why should anyone have a relationship with a family member who sleeps with their spouse?  that is an off limits topic. end of story. family should no better than to interfere in a marrage.

so i am sorry if it hurts then you cut it out of your life...

I think this young lady needs to file for divorce, and simply distance herself from her cheating husband, her sister and ANYONE else who hurts her!!!! If someone hurts you, whether it be mentally or physically, you need to distance yourself from them. The old saying "Forgive and Forget" is a CROCK!!!!!  She will be healthier and happier if she get's away from all of those who have done her harm in ANY fashion. And that's a fact that is undisputed. I hope she uses her brain and cuts her good for NOTHING-CHEATING husband loose, and cuts ties with family members who are killing her soul.

I totally agree, no matter what, blood is thicker than water.  Her sister is unbelievable to sleep with her brother-in-law, but he can always say 'NO' and obviously he's thinking with his pants down!  I'm sorry but it takes two to tango!

 

Her mother should not meddle with her daughter's marriage and she should learn to mind her own business, no matter how difficult it is. 

 

Her husband is no angel either, he should learn to keep his mouth shut.  He is attacking his mother-in-law on today's show, and he doesn't see that no matter what, she's an elderly woman and she should be respected as someone older and not necessarily wiser.

What goes around comes around and he's going to find that out when he has his own in-laws with his kids!  Good luck then.

Well I sure would, the sister and the husband behinds would have door marks on them!  they could take the mother too, on there out!  who needs these bs. darma in there life? no one!  This is her family? gimmie a break!