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October 8, 2005, 9:45 pm PDT
The Other Woman
Quote From: ritehere What does it matter if anybody out here "gets" you? How is your husband going to take it if he finds out? Will he "get" you? That's what matters.
I'm sorry to burst your bubble. I don't know how young/old you are, but your cheating WILL come back to haunt you. You say you're in a good marriage? I doubt that, otherwise you wouldn't nt be tippy-toeing around.
I KNOW, I've been there and it's come back to haunt me, some 20 years later. If you don't do whats "right", it doesn't matter. I believe in God, have done things to make myself feel "good", but it's now hurting my husband when I need him the most. I won't get into details, but for your kids sake and your DH's, get out of this relationship now. I guaranee you, you will not benefit from it.
If you need to talk to someone, you need to start with DH or a counselor. My problems were MINE, not his. I needed to work on me. I did, but again, I'm suffering the consequences of MY actions.
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