Replies to 'Is This Normal?'

I dont know if this is normal or not. I dont see all guys do it sometimes as a justified answer. What I am curious about is to why he would tell you such a thing. If he was doing this, telling you could do nothing more than hurt your feelings, or make you feel bad. I know I would be upset if my husband told me he was thinking of other women when he is with me. Sex is a gift from God to a husband and wife. It is not ok to think of someone else while making love with your spouse.