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June 12, 2007, 11:11 am PDT
 Quote From: jaimie1974 White women can talk about this all day long and no one says BOO because it is their issue. It is similar to a Jewish person talking about the negative reactions of others upon learning they are Jewish; they can talk about it because it is THEIR issue; or a lesbian talking about the issues she faces on a daily basis- she can talk about it because it is HER reality. Your question, Why are white women constantly going after black men? is offensive on many levels. Just the way that you have asked it- using the word constantly insinuates that ALL white women use their free time to pursue black men; it just isnt true. Perhaps if you pose your question in a different way, you will receive more positive feedback. I can understand why people would quickly assume that you are ignorant, jealous and a racist because of the way you pose your question. If you truly are curious to know why some white women prefer black men, consider re-phrasing your question. I suggest something like, To any white female in a relationship with a black male- what is it that attracted you to him? I do not refer to white women as"mine", or black men as the target for great sex. Actually I have found your theory of better sex with black men not so in all cases. We are all individuals regardless of colors. I think dark skined people are attractive, because their features stand out more, in comparison to white people. I am interested in black and white, all people and their stories in life's journey. I really think it's wrong to say that white women want black men, and as I've also heard, all the "good ones"..ha. no one's all that. I was married to white and black. Sex, better with the white, the black man ran around on me, but he didn't drink! Now, a black man approached me, he's so far a good man for me. I am white but I really think it would be difficult to say for sure that is the only reason he is with me, or visa versa. Black women who have chosen to talk to me about this have actually told me they wouldn't be interested in my man anyway. He has so many disabilities, and needs a lot of care. He does work, two jobs, hard working man, but these women wanted rich well established black men, he isn't . I am with someone near and dear to me. If he chooses someone else someday, then so be it . Live Life, Love someone,, it's worth the chance you take. Blessings and light. |
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