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Quote From: caholloway

Well punishment is pretty much over.  He has everything back but everything has a catch to it.  The latest will shock you.  While in session the other day...a discussion over dad came up and disclosed about playing with handguns at his house.  My understanding is they remove the bullets in fear their dad will get mad and shoot them.  Well, this leads to advisor calling child protective and an investigative being started.  Well as protection would be needed for this...A Protection from Abuse has been issued by two judges.  Plus a search warrant to search their dad's house for the guns and removal....this was at the judges discression.  Serious offense now.  Dad has called with a warning and has been recorded on voicemail...."just remember what goes around... comes around,...sooo be ready."   This was in violation to the no cantact order in place (PFA).  The boy has done excellent in this position.  His dad was to go to his session and never showed. The more he kept watching the madder he got.  He just opened the bag and let it all out.  He even brought things out from long ago.  I believe I did right on the punishment now.  It has worked for so many reasons.  This has made him open up and say what needs to be said.  I told him...keep up good sessions and days like this and you will be home free.  He has even been addressing issues with others. Which is good.  We go to court soon.  I will give you an update.  Thanks