Quote From: zoeybabyThis show was hard for me to watch, I was diagnosed with cancer the first week of this year, I had three weeks to comprehend what was happening to me, before surgery. My husband and I ran a car lot together. He was and is in denial. So i went to all the Dr's appts. by my self or with a friend. on the day of my operation (complete hysterectomy) he was not there for me emotionally. When I came home he completely rejected me, 2 weeks later he told me that he could not be married to someone with a terminal disease. that he needed someone to support him financially and take care of his needs.Then he moved out, through this time life was very hard, my liver became infected and started to spread.( I call this time my dark days.) A few days before I was to go back to work, I received a letter that I was terminated, great what next, he couldn't be married to me or work at the same company. I don't feel sympathy for him or the husband on the show. I am going to get through this hopefully only one more surgery in the near future. I am a survivor and hope that this never happens to anyone else.
I'm so sorry for all you have had to go through. I had cancer also, though not the same kind. I can't say I know how you feel because I don't, but I really hope things start to look up for you. My heart goes out to you and know that my prayers are with you on your upcoming surgery. I won't tell you that everything will be fine because I know that I got really tired of hearing it from everyone but I will say, even though it sounds cliche it's true....... That with God all things are possible. We can get through and overcome so much more than we ever thought possible. I know. I had to have my colon removed when I was only 22 because I had developed colon cancer from a genetic mutation I never knew I had. I found out soon after that that my 1 year old daughter will someday have to suffer through the same things I have if there aren't some major medical breakthroughs. Some days all you can do is grin and bare it. Sometimes you have to laugh to keep from crying. I know that God has a purpose for everything and everyone and that we become stronger through the battles that we face.
God bless you,
Lisa
