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September 29, 2005, 1:22 pm PDT
Living Together
Quote From: latingirlI too have had the same issues but my fears were from him, he gave them to me. There were times when I questioned him on things I found and he still denies them. I told him I need him to always be honest with me and if I choose to be with him, I need to let it go! I can't sit here always wondering if he is picking up on girls when he is at the bars with his friends, just because his friends do it, doesn't mean he is. We are on the same cell phone plan and I get the bills. he wanted to make sure that happened so I would never question him on his calls anymore. And that did work. We are together almost 70% at nights and weekends, but he still has time with his friends as well. And he usually will always invite me or call me a few times while he is out to make me more secure. You need to realize that you need to let those feelings go at some point, because who wants to be in a relationship when you have to always worry and he has to worry about how you feel all the time. He can help you though as well. We have the same thing too with the cell phones, it bothers him that i actually look at the numbers though. he says by now i should know he wants to be with me and thats it, i shouldnt need to look over the numbers if i trust him. its so much easier to say it than just change the feeling. hes good too about calling me when he goes out with friends, its just for some reason i always think theres things going on that he wont tell me or something like that.
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