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June 15, 2007, 10:21 am PDT

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Quote From: bryan9705

 it's hard to know  who you are when your family don't want you to be happy.i have been put down all my life.  and still people still put guilt trips on me .my sister next to me always finds a way to put a guilt trip on me.i want to move back to Tennessee and my sister don't want me to every since then one guilt trip after another.see said that my brother in law going have to take me to the bus station because she don't want to cry.maybe she don't but at lest she can say bye to us.it  feels like no one care about me sometimes  i feel like doing something stupid but my son keeps me from that. i wonder how my family would feel if i was gone from this earth  may one day but no time soon i hope i have to watch my son grow up even if my family don't like it . my sister is a user and a taker.
 I'm sorry your family is not supportive of you. However, letting them dictate your life and the way you live it shows a lack of control over yourself.  Your sister may well be a user and a taker, but it is YOU that allows her to take from and use YOU.
Are you not measuring up to her standards or your own? Do you owe her anything because you are living under her roof? Or is she living under your roof and taking advantage of you?
 


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