Quote From: chatcat62
I have been divorced for 15 years and dating never gets easier or better.
I wish men would give you half the attention after they "get" you that they gave you when they were trying to get you. Does it always have to be a game for them? Most men just like the challenge of getting you, then they tire of the game.
I would say the kind of men you have been dating are men who never wanted a full committed relationship. They may deny it when confronted about the issue, but you can decide for yourself if what I said is true or not by your own criteria.
I am on the far end of the spectrum than where you are. I have logged in on Match.com and Yahoo.com and I have not had a date or even a e-mail that orginated from either of the sites. I got to be single again by way of being a widower. I believe in having one wife, one girlfriend, one lover, one female confidant, and one Partner in life. All five of these would be beautiful lady that I marry. That is if I ever meet a lady that is. I know that I am far from being considered handsom and am definitely not rich. Those two parts take me out of the running with 99.999% of the women looking for someone on these sites. I would class all these women with the men that you mentioned.
I have to tell you to just be careful. I agree that men have been known to strech the truth sometimes. Especially if it means sex. But then it seems they are the first to get tired of the woman they get. I have also read of women being exactly the same way.
The only advice I can give you if you want to take it is to go slower and look a lot closer.
SeaBeeSC
