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June 19, 2007, 11:51 pm PDT
Thanks for the response
Quote From: jim1970Here's a thought...
Why don't you go for a guy who actually WANTS to be married.
God! You girls are lacking! That's why MEN are more intelligent.
When something doesn't work, we throw it away and get something else. You girls, however, like to cry about the guy with whom you wasted your youth and you cry that he doesn't want to get married.
Look for a guy who wants to get married in the first place. I know I'm coming from a logical point of view, but women don't understand logic-which is why you've been frustrated for 3 1/2 years. Thank you for the response, although there is more to the story then I shared the first time. I guess I was just using marriage as a distraction for everything I have been feeling. I was sexually assaulted 4 years ago and never dealt with it. And for that, I have internalized all of my emotions that I have felt up until this point for my relationship with this man. I don't want to marry him anymore because I know that's not what the real issue is. The reason all of this surfaced is because we got into a fight and he grabbed my leg and it unleashed everything that had happened to me four years ago that i hadn't dealt with. And you are right, most girls do act this way but I'm not one of them. I'm going to counseling now and facing my issues. I just wish I could get Dr. Phil to help me.
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