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September 30, 2005, 4:00 pm PDT
Your child is the most important...
Quote From: angelas My husband and I have been married for 8 years. My mom and dad do not like my husband he has always worked and tried to bring money into the house. But then 6 years ago we had a special needs child, it has been alot of work and time to take care of our son. And my husband and I chose to let him stay home and I work since I have been to college and my husband has not , and I am not using that as an excuse for him, because the jobs are very few and between around here. Not to mention we can not find anyone to watch our son. This is completly unacceptable to my parents, we do not ask for money all of our bills get paid ahead of time. And the stress that has been put on our marriage and on me has started to effect my health. I have told my parents that if they cannot accept the way things are, then to leave us alone. But they won't , they won;t leave me or us alone until he is gone . And then I do not beleave the problems will be gone. They do not even spend any time with their only grandson. The only thing I know to do is possibly to get the police invloved. If anyone understands, or has any ideas let me know. Hi,
I just want to applaud you for your decision. If your husband is man enough to stay at home and put the care of your child first then stand by that decision and feel pride for doing hat is best for your son. If you are able to stand on your won two feet and not have to ask for financial help then your parents have no say in the day to day operation of your household. Your husband sounds like a wonderful man and an excellent provider, and it takes more than just a job to be an excellent provider for your family. I applaud you and good luck in the future!
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