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June 20, 2007, 7:59 am PDT
feelings of last place...
Quote From: troubles4u2000I have been with my husband now for 8 years . Just been married for 1 1/2 years now.. He has an ex wife that has been coming between us the whole 8 years.. He says he is paying her mortage for the 8 years also cause he says his daughter is in college, He says in may of 2008 she will be out..I can understand him paying for his daughter schooling but not by his self.Anyway making a long story short ,I seen her phone number on his cell phone the other day and ask him why she call..He always tells me no of my bussiness or he dont have time to talk to me about it ..Cause he has to explain it to me..I think i have been more patience then anyone I know.. I am just lost and confuss ..He says he will never go backwards. But I feel like I am always in last place,,any word what I should do...? thanks First of all, I realize you posted to juballl, but he left the boards some time ago due to health reasons. I hope you don't mind if I answer?
May I ask why your husband divorced his first wife? Do you think he feels guilty and that is perhaps why he supports her so well?
As far as his daughter's college costs, that's totally up to him. He may be paying the lion's share of it, but are you sure that the ex-wife isn't pitching in with the everyday allowance and things that enables her daughter to get by while in school?
His answer to your question of why he talked to his ex-wife the other day sounds defensive. Does he think you suspect him of something? Do you have any reason to suspect him of something other than the fact that he takes care of the ex with support, pays the daughter's college costs, and talks to ex on the phone?
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