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June 27, 2007, 9:09 am PDT
okay, lets talk
Quote From: sunshine80You know what, you need to dissesct that big burden into little burdens and kick them all to the curb one at a time. If you need ideas we can talk about it, but i don't want to seem bossy. don't wrry about seeming too bossy. I guess to me the biggest thing is, like i said, "understanding" too much; even when it hurts me; I WILL NOT tolerate hurting ones I love. i seem to feel i can absorb hurt better than others, so i let myself be hurt rather than hurt someone. i really just don't have a clue how to NOT be understanding & @ the same time not feel like i am overreacting - esp when my sense of "understanding why" kicks in; or whose wrong - i really good @ finding a way to blame myself for what happened. Not accepting blame/responsibility are probably the LEAST of my faults - if they even exist w/in me.
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