Quote From: vdumbleThe problem with women is they are terrified of being alone..you are staying in a relationship that is going nowhere because you don't want to be alone, when in fact it's probably the best thing for you. I stayed in an abusive relationship for a while cos I just couldn't imagine living without him, and then I finally left and I couldn't be happier! Also, some people are more into sex than others, some people not at all! You need to find someone who suits your sexual needs and you cannot be afraid of verbalising your desires- it's the only way to get what you want! More importantly though, most women don't know what buttons to push themselves, you need to explore yourself sexually- get a vibrator!
I might have to disagree with this. Granted, I can't speak for everyone but myself, but I don't think this is true of all women. Maybe the older ones because they're not used to being alone - but I think women my age and younger aren't afraid of living alone, not at all.
I'm glad that you left him and that you're now happier than ever! That shows you that you did the right thing in leaving him. ;-) I think in this day and age that most women do masturbate and that they know how to slowly stimulate themselves to a strong orgasm. If they don't, then you're definitely right in that they should learn how to do this to themselves so that they can show their lover(s) how to please them.
