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October 2, 2005, 9:03 pm PDT

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You are unfortunately the exception to the rule with many kids today. You believe sex before marriage is wrong, and that is a good thing!  I wish there were more kids like you!  Your school sounds like they are a little more truthful in their sex ed program.  Is your school's sex ed program abstinence based?  or have you made your decision based on parental/church guidance? also did your school tell you that condoms are only about 85% effective in preventing pregnancy and STDs?  I believe education is the best thing, but let's not lead these kids astray by telling them one thing (premarital sex is a bad idea) then turning around and giving them condoms.  to me that makes no sense whatsoever. 

  

I have no problem with giving out free condoms in the schools. Pre-marital sex, or any sexual relationship, is much more than an "idea," it is also a matter of hormones. We tell people when driving a car to wear a seat belt - not because we truely believe they will be in an accident but because we wish them to be prepared in case they are in an accident; just in case they should use poor judgment and go too fast around a curve. It seems to me that even the best intentioned can make a mistake, why should the pentality for that mistake be contracting an STD, some which can be life-threatening, or conceiving a child that is not truely wanted.  Whether a person of any age has pre-marital sex is a matter of moral values coupled with their ability to control their emotions. Not an easy task  even for those of a mature age, whatever that may be.
 
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October 10, 2005, 10:29 am PDT

10/07 The Latest Debates

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You are unfortunately the exception to the rule with many kids today. You believe sex before marriage is wrong, and that is a good thing!  I wish there were more kids like you!  Your school sounds like they are a little more truthful in their sex ed program.  Is your school's sex ed program abstinence based?  or have you made your decision based on parental/church guidance? also did your school tell you that condoms are only about 85% effective in preventing pregnancy and STDs?  I believe education is the best thing, but let's not lead these kids astray by telling them one thing (premarital sex is a bad idea) then turning around and giving them condoms.  to me that makes no sense whatsoever. 

  

 Why do you only commend this young woman on her choice to wait till marriage? There were so many other strong points to her statement: SHE doesn't believe in premarital sex.  

  

 I'm not going to assume that her choice would've been the same or different if she hadn't taken the class, in any event, she made the choice. Young people are not always going to make the right decisions, however,  we should take any viable avenue that will arm them with the right information to make the right choices for themselves.  

  

Many programs at secondary schools rarely hand out condoms, other then to demonstrate their use. High school programs should have condoms available to students, but, they should be sold for a reduced price. 

 


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