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October 3, 2005, 8:37 am PDT
talk to him
Quote From: kraziegirlOk, I am not sure which category this goes under but I need some advice on a certain issue I have been having lately, it involves a guy, of course. You see, we were "seeing" eachother for a while until we had sex. Then I started feeling that he was just using me.... we had a talk about it, he told me he wasn't and then things were fine then we did it again and now things aren't going anywhere. I mean, he told me that communication is key in a relationship, I TOTALLY agree with him, BUT, when I ask him what's bothering him he won't tell me, then I find out later what he's feeling or thinking. One night we were text messaging and we kind of got into an arguement so he said he would prefer if we talked about it in person, so thursday night we went out for coffee and then he asked me, "is there something you wanted to talk about at all?" like, why can't HE talk about what's up with HIM? Why do I have to be the one to say what's on my mind. He has told me that he doesn't think I care anymore and that he doesn't know what he wants. It's like he can't admit that he doesn't want me and I just want to know why? Like, I did care for him, I did like him but I can't be treated this way, it's not going to work if it keeps up..... so any advice I'd really appreciate it.... thanks.. Have to told him that all your feelings. Tell him he needs to be honest with you otherwise it won't go anywhere. Tell him you are into him and want to make it work out but he needs to be open and honest and not be around the bush. I think you BOTH are having issues with the same problem. Talk to each other, before you have sex again! Otherwise, you will end up going no where!
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