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July 11, 2007, 9:57 am PDT

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Lord, please keep those grown boys (age 9 and 15) away from my 12-yr-old daughter until they are potty trained!!! YIKES!!!!

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As for the infertile couple, I know the feeling. It took us that long to conceive to and it involved lots of crying, disappointment and money. NOBODY knows the pain of not being able to conceive unless she has gone thru it herself! HOPEFULLY hubby will recognize how important this is to his wife and be gracious about it. My husband was and we now have two wonderful children (age 6 and 12) to show for all the patience (and robot sex:). Trust me, it's ALL worth it once the kids are born!!!!

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If I lost lots of weight, you can bet I would save my $$$ and have a tummy tuck and whatever else I needed to deal with the excess skin. Hopefully my husband would be sensitive enough to know that my self-esteem needed the surgery. Knowing my great guy, he would want me to have the surgery as a "gift" to myself for succeeding at getting healthy and losing the weight. Marriage is about support, love and respect. How better to show love and support than to "invest" in something that will improve the mental health of a spouse!!!

from the food you're not buying. But then there's that car payment for the Mercedes, credit card bills and don't forget the vacation house in the mountains...

I can't imagine a 12 and 15 year old not potty trained. They'd have to change their own diapers.

I know its nice to get pregnant, but there are lots of kids out there that want to be adopted. My brother and I are adopted. My younger brother is not.

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July 11, 2007, 1:38 pm PDT

07/11 What’s Up, Doc?

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Lord, please keep those grown boys (age 9 and 15) away from my 12-yr-old daughter until they are potty trained!!! YIKES!!!!

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As for the infertile couple, I know the feeling. It took us that long to conceive to and it involved lots of crying, disappointment and money. NOBODY knows the pain of not being able to conceive unless she has gone thru it herself! HOPEFULLY hubby will recognize how important this is to his wife and be gracious about it. My husband was and we now have two wonderful children (age 6 and 12) to show for all the patience (and robot sex:). Trust me, it's ALL worth it once the kids are born!!!!

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If I lost lots of weight, you can bet I would save my $$$ and have a tummy tuck and whatever else I needed to deal with the excess skin. Hopefully my husband would be sensitive enough to know that my self-esteem needed the surgery. Knowing my great guy, he would want me to have the surgery as a "gift" to myself for succeeding at getting healthy and losing the weight. Marriage is about support, love and respect. How better to show love and support than to "invest" in something that will improve the mental health of a spouse!!!

WOW how petty are you obviously you were not listening to the program this is a medical condition one of which will not go away on its own. They need help this is a real condition I have expereienced it in my family and NO ONE understands the embarrasment and frustration it is because people have attitudes like you, you need to learn how to not judge people!!! Like anyone would do this voluntarily!

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July 11, 2007, 1:59 pm PDT

07/11 What’s Up, Doc?

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Lord, please keep those grown boys (age 9 and 15) away from my 12-yr-old daughter until they are potty trained!!! YIKES!!!!

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As for the infertile couple, I know the feeling. It took us that long to conceive to and it involved lots of crying, disappointment and money. NOBODY knows the pain of not being able to conceive unless she has gone thru it herself! HOPEFULLY hubby will recognize how important this is to his wife and be gracious about it. My husband was and we now have two wonderful children (age 6 and 12) to show for all the patience (and robot sex:). Trust me, it's ALL worth it once the kids are born!!!!

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If I lost lots of weight, you can bet I would save my $$$ and have a tummy tuck and whatever else I needed to deal with the excess skin. Hopefully my husband would be sensitive enough to know that my self-esteem needed the surgery. Knowing my great guy, he would want me to have the surgery as a "gift" to myself for succeeding at getting healthy and losing the weight. Marriage is about support, love and respect. How better to show love and support than to "invest" in something that will improve the mental health of a spouse!!!

Its funny you speak of the "mental health of an adult", I wish you had the same compassion when it comes to children with medical issues. Did you not LISTEN???? How DARE you judge anyone with a medical imparity? Maybe if one of your perfect children had a problem even close to this, you'd use a little more compassion. How rude and ignorant of a comment ot make. You should really think of others before you write!! And as a side note, I hope these boys do stay awya from your daughter, no doubt you've taught her the same ignorant attitude.

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July 11, 2007, 5:41 pm PDT

potty troubles

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Lord, please keep those grown boys (age 9 and 15) away from my 12-yr-old daughter until they are potty trained!!! YIKES!!!!

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As for the infertile couple, I know the feeling. It took us that long to conceive to and it involved lots of crying, disappointment and money. NOBODY knows the pain of not being able to conceive unless she has gone thru it herself! HOPEFULLY hubby will recognize how important this is to his wife and be gracious about it. My husband was and we now have two wonderful children (age 6 and 12) to show for all the patience (and robot sex:). Trust me, it's ALL worth it once the kids are born!!!!

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If I lost lots of weight, you can bet I would save my $$$ and have a tummy tuck and whatever else I needed to deal with the excess skin. Hopefully my husband would be sensitive enough to know that my self-esteem needed the surgery. Knowing my great guy, he would want me to have the surgery as a "gift" to myself for succeeding at getting healthy and losing the weight. Marriage is about support, love and respect. How better to show love and support than to "invest" in something that will improve the mental health of a spouse!!!

I can sympathize with the parents of the 2 boys-- I have a son with the same condition and it is a medical problem. the bowel gets so stretched from constant constipation the sensation to go to the bathroom is lost-- the kids don't even know it's happening. My son was in the hospital for 3 days to get cleaned out and to start over however it's a long process and getting kids to understand the severity of their condition is hard. Everything must change-- eating habits, making the effort to just sit on the can even if you don't think you need to go to the bathroom, and regular exercise-- kids now a days are able to spend lots of time on a computer or in front of video games and TV. I thought we were on the road to recovery however we've had a set back and it's frustrating however we will continue to plug away with the regular use of laxatives, eating better (which is hard) and trying to get him motivated to exercise. If any one has any suggestions or ideas I'd love to hear them.

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July 11, 2007, 11:22 pm PDT

Come on ladybug

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Lord, please keep those grown boys (age 9 and 15) away from my 12-yr-old daughter until they are potty trained!!! YIKES!!!!

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As for the infertile couple, I know the feeling. It took us that long to conceive to and it involved lots of crying, disappointment and money. NOBODY knows the pain of not being able to conceive unless she has gone thru it herself! HOPEFULLY hubby will recognize how important this is to his wife and be gracious about it. My husband was and we now have two wonderful children (age 6 and 12) to show for all the patience (and robot sex:). Trust me, it's ALL worth it once the kids are born!!!!

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If I lost lots of weight, you can bet I would save my $$$ and have a tummy tuck and whatever else I needed to deal with the excess skin. Hopefully my husband would be sensitive enough to know that my self-esteem needed the surgery. Knowing my great guy, he would want me to have the surgery as a "gift" to myself for succeeding at getting healthy and losing the weight. Marriage is about support, love and respect. How better to show love and support than to "invest" in something that will improve the mental health of a spouse!!!

WHAT IS THE MATTER WITH YOU? Do you think these boys like what they do? It is a MEDICAL issue. This does not mean they are gross, bad, disrespectful or anything like that. They did not ask for this it just happens. I have a huge problem with adults putting down kids. You would not allow your daughter to be around them because of a medical thing. This is no different than a person who wears glasses, hearing aids, being a diabetic or any other form of a medical problem. How would you feel if this was one of your kids who suffers from constipation and people had rude comments? Do you have any other children and did you give birth to your daughter? Well honey I am sure you had or have a weak bladder and urinated on yourself.
Regarding your comment about keeping the grown boys away from your daughter--- I hope you want to keep ALL BOYS away from your daughter. She is young and hopefully doesn't make fun of kids.
Constipation has controlled this families life. Do you remember what the mom said about going to the pool, out to eat, shopping, or on a family vacation.
We always hear how mean and cruel other kids can be but you are an adult act like one!

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July 11, 2007, 11:27 pm PDT

BOY YOUR SMART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Lord, please keep those grown boys (age 9 and 15) away from my 12-yr-old daughter until they are potty trained!!! YIKES!!!!

.

As for the infertile couple, I know the feeling. It took us that long to conceive to and it involved lots of crying, disappointment and money. NOBODY knows the pain of not being able to conceive unless she has gone thru it herself! HOPEFULLY hubby will recognize how important this is to his wife and be gracious about it. My husband was and we now have two wonderful children (age 6 and 12) to show for all the patience (and robot sex:). Trust me, it's ALL worth it once the kids are born!!!!

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If I lost lots of weight, you can bet I would save my $$$ and have a tummy tuck and whatever else I needed to deal with the excess skin. Hopefully my husband would be sensitive enough to know that my self-esteem needed the surgery. Knowing my great guy, he would want me to have the surgery as a "gift" to myself for succeeding at getting healthy and losing the weight. Marriage is about support, love and respect. How better to show love and support than to "invest" in something that will improve the mental health of a spouse!!!

YOU KNOW SO MUCH ABOUT THIS YOU COULD REPLY BEFORE YOU SAW THE SHOW!!!!!!

ITS GOOD TO SEE YOU CAN BETTER UNDERSTAND THAT A WOMAN NEEDS TO MAKE SURE SHE DOES NOT HAVE EXTRA SKIN IN HER BELLY (NOT THAT I DON'T FEEL FOR HER) BUT YOU HAVE NO COMPASSION FOR CHILDREN YOU CALL GROWN BOYS I WAS NOT INFORMED AS YOU SEEM TO HAVE BEEN THAT 9 YEARS OLD IS NOW GROWN. I CAN SEE YOU HAVE YOUR HEAD ON STRAIGHT. I JUST HOPE MY SON DOES NOT COME ACROSS YOUR DAUGHTER EITHER. JUST IN CASE SHE HAS YOUR BIG HEART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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July 12, 2007, 1:19 pm PDT

What's Up, Doc

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Lord, please keep those grown boys (age 9 and 15) away from my 12-yr-old daughter until they are potty trained!!! YIKES!!!!

.

As for the infertile couple, I know the feeling. It took us that long to conceive to and it involved lots of crying, disappointment and money. NOBODY knows the pain of not being able to conceive unless she has gone thru it herself! HOPEFULLY hubby will recognize how important this is to his wife and be gracious about it. My husband was and we now have two wonderful children (age 6 and 12) to show for all the patience (and robot sex:). Trust me, it's ALL worth it once the kids are born!!!!

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If I lost lots of weight, you can bet I would save my $$$ and have a tummy tuck and whatever else I needed to deal with the excess skin. Hopefully my husband would be sensitive enough to know that my self-esteem needed the surgery. Knowing my great guy, he would want me to have the surgery as a "gift" to myself for succeeding at getting healthy and losing the weight. Marriage is about support, love and respect. How better to show love and support than to "invest" in something that will improve the mental health of a spouse!!!

What is wrong with you? Obviously you have no heart for those 2 boys that have a medical condition that obviously they can't control.

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November 26, 2007, 7:36 pm PST

07/11 What’s Up, Doc?

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Lord, please keep those grown boys (age 9 and 15) away from my 12-yr-old daughter until they are potty trained!!! YIKES!!!!

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As for the infertile couple, I know the feeling. It took us that long to conceive to and it involved lots of crying, disappointment and money. NOBODY knows the pain of not being able to conceive unless she has gone thru it herself! HOPEFULLY hubby will recognize how important this is to his wife and be gracious about it. My husband was and we now have two wonderful children (age 6 and 12) to show for all the patience (and robot sex:). Trust me, it's ALL worth it once the kids are born!!!!

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If I lost lots of weight, you can bet I would save my $$$ and have a tummy tuck and whatever else I needed to deal with the excess skin. Hopefully my husband would be sensitive enough to know that my self-esteem needed the surgery. Knowing my great guy, he would want me to have the surgery as a "gift" to myself for succeeding at getting healthy and losing the weight. Marriage is about support, love and respect. How better to show love and support than to "invest" in something that will improve the mental health of a spouse!!!

Only one thing to say about the post and it is in regards to the first line. This is an insensitive, rude comment from someone who obviously does NOT understand the problem. God help you if your precious 12 year old daughter suffered the illness. Shameful, just shameful

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September 13, 2008, 2:18 am PDT

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Lord, please keep those grown boys (age 9 and 15) away from my 12-yr-old daughter until they are potty trained!!! YIKES!!!!

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As for the infertile couple, I know the feeling. It took us that long to conceive to and it involved lots of crying, disappointment and money. NOBODY knows the pain of not being able to conceive unless she has gone thru it herself! HOPEFULLY hubby will recognize how important this is to his wife and be gracious about it. My husband was and we now have two wonderful children (age 6 and 12) to show for all the patience (and robot sex:). Trust me, it's ALL worth it once the kids are born!!!!

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If I lost lots of weight, you can bet I would save my $$$ and have a tummy tuck and whatever else I needed to deal with the excess skin. Hopefully my husband would be sensitive enough to know that my self-esteem needed the surgery. Knowing my great guy, he would want me to have the surgery as a "gift" to myself for succeeding at getting healthy and losing the weight. Marriage is about support, love and respect. How better to show love and support than to "invest" in something that will improve the mental health of a spouse!!!

im 18 and a single mom of a 15 month old ive had encompresis for 11 yrs and had to deal with it and it so painful bcuz u make poop the size of galvestons seawall Rocks lol. ive taken everything to get rid of it and it doesnt help.

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