Quote From: momsemiPlease tell the couple who are trying so hard to have a baby they need to relax, quit thinking about getting pregnant, and enjoy themselves.
When we were first married 48 years ago, we wanted to have children right away and since it didn't happen immediately, we began to stress about it and do whatever the medical community knew to do back in those days. It did indeed sort of become a job. We lived on a farm. One of the ewes had twin lambs and wouldn't "own" one. I began feeding it with a bottle, which had to be done on a regular schedule day and night. Getting pregnant kind of went to the bottom of the list, as this sweet fluffy little orphan was depending on me for it's life. The lamb gradually began to thrive and one morning as I was bending over to feed it, I noticed I was very nauseated. This continued to get worse and lo and behold I found out I was pregnant. My husband thinks feeding the lamb brought out my maternal instinct. I think just forgetting about trying so hard was what did the trick. PS The lamb lived on to have lambs of it's own.
I think most everyone has or has heard a similar story. The inability to have children may very well be a medical issue. The woman on the show has had 3 miscarriages, and has been trying for 3 years. I dont really think the doctor on the show has either enough experience or enough medical history information to diagnose this couple's issue as "behavioral".
I myself have been trying for over four years with no success. I find it a bit annoying when people tell me to "just relax". IMHO, that's insulting.
Dr Phil - everyone accepted that the mother of four couldn't "behave her way" out of the flabby tummy... Why is everyone so quick to flippantly believe that this woman can "relax her way" out of infertility issues?