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July 9, 2007, 6:02 pm PDT
Thank you.
Quote From: rebalaciaI have certain issues with those who seem to think they know better when they really don't. Your right everyone is entitled to their opinion and my opinion is that people should be kind until they know what the situation is, all the facts..... not just make assumptions from a quick blurb on the outline of the show. When credit is due I will give it. I tend to be empathetic to those who deserve it and I will not pass judgment on someone unless judgment need be passed. So thats My opinion and I'm as entitled to it as anyone else. Apparently I view the world in a different way. There is always an explanation in these shows as to why someone has gone astray. There are certainly people that come on the show that deserve to be judged and not in a nice way either. I for one since starting the Addictions and community service worker program at college have had to do some work on myself and the way I look at the world. I think there is something to be learned from those who appear on the show and from what Dr.Phil has to say. When I said some people can just be plain rude I am speaking about the select few that have made personal attacks on people that have shared their personal stories and passed horrible judgment on them. In my defense I was in no way shape or form offended by what you had to say to me but rather I appreciate it as I sense it comes from a peaceful place. I will forever think like this. I just think that a select few need to do a bit a self reflection before so eagerly attacking someone else. Take into account Jeremy who was accused of molesting his young 3 year old daughter.... I do believe he did it and he is definitely one of those people that I defiantly would of had a good time with getting some things off my chest. Also this is a Whats up Doc show so I can't imagine it would be a problem like missing the toilet and not cleaning it up or the fact that they don't know how to go to the bathroom. please lets not insult these boys intelligence. I am a very compassionate person everything I say comes from the heart and deep down within(as I'm sure others do the same as well). I think the world could use more people who are full of action and not just words. Also I am a kinesthetic learner so there is a lot of feeling behind my reactions. In order to understand how I respond perhaps one should goggle Kinesthetic learners. Anyway I do appreciate your feed back. However I will say what I need to say as you and many others will and know that I will not say negative things about those who do not deserve it. I hope no one gets offended by this as I do not feel like going through some type of word war on the boards, Also if you do get offended thats your problem because people can only offend you if you let them offend you. On that note I haven't been offended by what people have had to say I simply feel a different way! Besides aren't there enough bad things going on out there in the world, why bring them in here IF there is no cause.
Thank you for your kind words, Rebecca. I realize that you mistakenly thought I'm from Canada.(I'm from Virginia) I see your point about the show being about "What's Up Doc?" I guess I was trying to look at the situation with the boys from a different angle because of thier ages. There must be a medical or emotional problem of some sort. I have to wonder why they have not received some sort of diagnosis by now. We'll find out soon enough. Because I had never heard of Kinesthetic learners I DID look it up. I found it to be very interesting. I hope you enjoy the messageboards as much as I do. We come here to talk about the shows and just like out there in the world ,we can be judgemental. But there are Moderators who won't allow just anything. I have seen DrP say"Come to the messageboards and tell us what you think." The opinions are always different,kind,thoughtful and a lot of times hurtful and judgemental. I feel emphathy for the guests who may come here and read something bad about themselves. But, they open themselves up to our opinions by appearing on the show. And in my opinion, the messageboards would be very boring without a smorgasboard of opinions from every direction. But, I totally understand how you feel too.
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