Quote From: miekjei think nobody can answer that question. i am in a relationship with a man way older than me, and it's been over a year now. he has been the best thing that happened to me in probably my whole life. and i don't know if this will ladt for the rest of our lives, or if it will end next year, but i've had a wonderfull time, that i will always be able to look back on. so i'd say if it's going great, just give it a try. my boyfriend is also a very good normal friend of mine, so we can have fun doing things that you would do with normal friends. and if you have that kind of a relationship too, and you can talk to him, i think there is a very good base for a long lasting relationship. keep talking also about minor issues, so they won't grow big, and HAVE FUN!
good luck,
annemiek
thank you VERY much for your response. I do like the fact that we are friends first and we do talk alot about what is going on, our feelings and where this could possibly go. I have been married twice and have two kids, it worries me that I will be taking his youth away from him. He adores me though, why would i NOT want that right now in my life.
Thanks again for the advise.
